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Episode - 29 - GenX Core Memories
In this episode we share our core memories from our GenX childhood. We reminisce on shared experiences and perspectives from the movie Grease to Casey Kasem’s American Top 40 Countdown, to pet rocks to metal lunchboxes, to Love Boat to Dukes of Hazzard, to MTV and the roller rink, and many more memories that made an impact on us. It was a fun episode and we plan on doing another one soon!
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<b>[Music]</b><b>Welcome to GenX Adulting and today Brian and I</b><b>are going to talk about</b><b>GenX core memories unlocked.</b><b>So I've made a list of things I</b><b>remember from my GenX childhood.</b><b>Brian's made a list but we</b><b>have not shared that list.</b><b>Even though sometimes throughout the week Brian</b><b>would start to talk to me about his list,</b><b>I would tell him to stop that we</b><b>need to save it for this episode.</b><b>Is that why you've not</b><b>engaged when I brought them up?</b><b>Yes. Okay.</b><b>I have a feeling my list is not as good as</b><b>yours because I've been struggling.</b><b>So I'm curious to hear what yours is and then</b><b>that may make my list evolve.</b><b>I think that there may</b><b>be a lot of similarities.</b><b>Like probably some things on my list you'll</b><b>say, "Oh yeah, you know."</b><b>And you'll be like,"Yeah, me too."</b><b>But I didn't want to know what was on your list</b><b>and I think that it's better</b><b>just to kind of surprise each other.</b><b>Because I'm curious how many we have are the</b><b>same and how many are different.</b><b>We're from the opposite coasts.</b><b>I grew up on the West Coast in Oregon.</b><b>Brian grew up on the East Coast in New Jersey.</b><b>I don't know if that's</b><b>going to have any bearing on it.</b><b>I spent, actually my younger formative years,</b><b>preschool through second</b><b>grade in Northern California.</b><b>So I was more in a very much hippie vibe,</b><b>Northern California especially in the 70s.</b><b>You certainly were not.</b><b>No, I spent anything in my formative years.</b><b>It's Northern New Jersey outside of New York</b><b>City and then in Jersey City, which is right</b><b>across the river from New York.</b><b>But then I spent summers in West Virginia.</b><b>Right.</b><b>I had a very contrasting upbringing.</b><b>You did.</b><b>And I would spend part of my summer in Michigan</b><b>where my dad lived because</b><b>my parents were divorced.</b><b>Which is totally different from the West Coast</b><b>vibe of California and Oregon.</b><b>And New Jersey.</b><b>The Midwest has its own</b><b>completely different vibe.</b><b>So we'll see.</b><b>So I'm just going to start.</b><b>You go first because I</b><b>have a feeling my list sucks.</b><b>Compared to yours, but you go and we'll...</b><b>Yeah, I already know there's</b><b>a couple of things on here.</b><b>I just know.</b><b>So the first thing that comes to mind for me</b><b>when I made this list, and it's going to be</b><b>weird, but it was my favorite candy.</b><b>And it was called Tangy Taffy.</b><b>And you can't get it now.</b><b>And so...</b><b>Oh really?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So it was like a stick.</b><b>When did that stop?</b><b>Because I could have sworn</b><b>I'd have recollection of it.</b><b>So there's Laffy Taffy.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And Laffy Taffy has small squares, I think.</b><b>And then it has like a bigger stick that's</b><b>like, I don't know, maybe seven inches long by</b><b>like two inches wide and it's flat.</b><b>But then Tangy Taffy was</b><b>my absolute favorite candy.</b><b>And all through my childhood,</b><b>7-Eleven, any convenience store.</b><b>That's what I bought.</b><b>When I told the story on the other episode</b><b>where I would go and pick up trash at the</b><b>baseball diamond and she would give me candy.</b><b>That was one of the things she would give me.</b><b>I would eat that walking home.</b><b>Interesting.</b><b>Like holding it just like...</b><b>Is there a particular flavor?</b><b>Cherry.</b><b>Cherry.</b><b>Cherry.</b><b>It was so good.</b><b>And I think the last time I had it was...</b><b>Honestly, I think when we were first married,</b><b>so I was probably like 23.</b><b>And then it just disappeared.</b><b>Do you think it's still</b><b>available on the West Coast?</b><b>Someone has to chime in because we</b><b>haven't been back in a few years.</b><b>So did you not have Tangy Taffy?</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>I recall us having some type of Taffy.</b><b>Well, we had...</b><b>So growing up in New Jersey,</b><b>we used to go to the shore.</b><b>Well, yeah, that's different though.</b><b>That's saltwater Taffy.</b><b>Saltwater Taffy.</b><b>Yeah, we had that in Oregon at the coast.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>At the beach.</b><b>I do recall some really sugary, tangy,</b><b>chemically flat type of</b><b>shit that you would eat.</b><b>That's probably it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But I wonder if that's from when we met and...</b><b>You tried it?</b><b>Yeah, maybe.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>So I also like Charleston Choo.</b><b>That's funny.</b><b>That was going to...</b><b>When you said...</b><b>Would you say Laffy or Tangy?</b><b>Tangy Taffy.</b><b>Tangy Taffy.</b><b>I thought of Charleston Choo.</b><b>Charleston Choo.</b><b>Yeah, I love those.</b><b>Yeah, Charleston Choo was so good.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So those were...</b><b>And then Bit of Honey.</b><b>Yeah, those are good.</b><b>I liked Bit of Honey.</b><b>I don't...</b><b>I think Bit of Honey you can</b><b>get places like Bass Pro Shops.</b><b>I feel like that shows up for Halloween only.</b><b>Maybe.</b><b>Gosh, I don't even know the</b><b>last time I saw Bit of Honey.</b><b>I feel like at least when Nathan and Kai were</b><b>younger, throwing their candy out on the carpet</b><b>and going through it.</b><b>Yeah, but that's like...</b><b>That was almost 20 years ago.</b><b>They're older now.</b><b>And then I loved Hubba Bubba.</b><b>Hubba Bubba was awesome.</b><b>That was my...</b><b>Bubble Yum.</b><b>Bubble Yum and Hubba Bubba.</b><b>Yeah, that was good.</b><b>Those were my gums.</b><b>What about Big League Chew?</b><b>Nope.</b><b>You didn't...</b><b>I mean, I know.</b><b>I knew of it.</b><b>Yeah, yeah, yeah.</b><b>But I was not interested in that now.</b><b>I loved that because as a baseball player, as a</b><b>kid, they mimic the Big League guys.</b><b>Of course.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Because they chewed tobacco.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It was completely accepted back then.</b><b>It was.</b><b>I used to chew too when we were in high school.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I think that was more...</b><b>Back then, I think it was a gender thing.</b><b>I didn't know any girls</b><b>that chewed Big League Chew.</b><b>Nobody did.</b><b>So that's...</b><b>Yeah. So what's something on your list?</b><b>Well, let's stick to the candy.</b><b>Oh, okay.</b><b>I would say my favorite</b><b>candies as a kid were Jolly Ranchers.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>And then Red Twizzlers.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You're like, you're not...</b><b>Red Vines.</b><b>Red Vines.</b><b>Yeah, yeah, yeah.</b><b>Is that a West Coast thing or just...</b><b>Because we did have</b><b>Twizzlers, but I rarely eat Twizzlers.</b><b>I like Red Vines.</b><b>I do recall going to the movies, ordering like</b><b>a Pepsi or a Coke, the big bag of Twizzlers.</b><b>Or actually, we got to the point</b><b>where you'd sneak them in, right?</b><b>You'd go to the store and</b><b>buy them and sneak them in.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then drinking your Pepsi</b><b>or Coke through the Twizzlers.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Right?</b><b>Would you ever do that?</b><b>Yeah, no.</b><b>So good.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then what was the first thing you said?</b><b>You said Twizzlers and then what...</b><b>Jolly Ranchers.</b><b>Jolly Ranchers.</b><b>Didn't you sell those at school?</b><b>I did.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I had a nice little racket going.</b><b>I'd go to the Acme, which they don't really</b><b>exist too much anymore.</b><b>I don't think so.</b><b>Go to the Acme.</b><b>You could buy a bag for 79 cents, and then I</b><b>would pack them up in my pockets and go sell</b><b>them for like a quarter each in junior high.</b><b>I had a lot of money on me at the...</b><b>You know, relatively speaking, I had bills.</b><b>What's crazy is that if those kids had even a</b><b>quarter or two, they could have bought their</b><b>own bag for 79 cents.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I think it was a convenience thing.</b><b>I had access.</b><b>I live kind of...</b><b>Yeah, you walked across the street.</b><b>That's right.</b><b>Where you lived.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So did you ever wear wide leg pants?</b><b>What are wide leg pants?</b><b>Like bell bottoms?</b><b>No.</b><b>No?</b><b>No way.</b><b>Not even in the 70s.</b><b>No.</b><b>When we were younger.</b><b>I would have picked on people if they did that.</b><b>East coast.</b><b>That wasn't cool.</b><b>Oh, that's so funny.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So when I...</b><b>Maybe it's me though, but it's...</b><b>So when I was in second...</b><b>No.</b><b>First and second grade</b><b>specifically, I remember wearing...</b><b>This is in Northern California.</b><b>We call them wide leg pants, but I think bell</b><b>bottoms was the official name.</b><b>And when you'd walk, they were so wide that it</b><b>goes swish, swish, swish, swish, like the</b><b>quarter right?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Quarter right?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Quarter right?</b><b>Like you'd hear it as you're walking.</b><b>That was a huge thing.</b><b>So we all wore...</b><b>I feel like...</b><b>I would have to say almost my earliest</b><b>recollection of bell bottoms</b><b>might be like older girls in</b><b>town, but maybe it's like the Bad</b><b>News Bears watching the TV show.</b><b>That's how I dressed.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Not like that show.</b><b>Like that was...</b><b>I think you probably didn't...</b><b>Didn't you wear...</b><b>Like we would wear knee</b><b>high socks with the stripes.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Sometimes I'd wear nylon shorts.</b><b>The girls did.</b><b>It'd be like nylon...</b><b>Like the blue...</b><b>Like satiny shorts.</b><b>Like satiny short shorts,</b><b>even though I was young.</b><b>And then the knee high socks and sneakers.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like blue Nike's or something.</b><b>Well...</b><b>I don't even know the brand.</b><b>It wasn't a thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I mean, once I got to fourth...</b><b>No, fifth grade, the preppy handbook came out.</b><b>Sixth grade.</b><b>The preppy handbook came out.</b><b>Was that a thing for you?</b><b>I don't recall ever hearing that.</b><b>We had a very preppy face, but I</b><b>don't recall the preppy handbook.</b><b>That was huge.</b><b>At least that was when I</b><b>was in Oregon and Portland.</b><b>Beaverton to be exact.</b><b>The preppy handbook came out and we all wore</b><b>penny loafers and we put</b><b>pennies in our loafers.</b><b>Wearing pink and green, like a certain color</b><b>pink and green, like Kelly green and like</b><b>not like a hot dark pink, but like a bright</b><b>light pink eyes on or now they call it Lacoste.</b><b>I mean, I think it was Lacoste them, but</b><b>everyone called it eyes on.</b><b>Popping the collars.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Pop the collars.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was girls and boys were that.</b><b>And that was the whole thing.</b><b>And then jeans.</b><b>I can't remember what jeans.</b><b>What year was that for you?</b><b>That's like sixth grade.</b><b>So that's why like 80, 82, 81, 82.</b><b>That was like eighth grade or ninth grade,</b><b>seventh, eighth, ninth grade type of thing.</b><b>I remember going into my freshman year of high</b><b>school dressed up like dressed up like</b><b>preppy.</b><b>And then for the first day, second day of</b><b>school, I think I was in sweats and the team,</b><b>you know, logo type of thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Cause you're playing sports.</b><b>But I think because you lived, I lived in a</b><b>fairly, um, metropolite area.</b><b>And I think cause you lived in a small town in</b><b>a rural New Jersey, I think in towns like</b><b>that, you guys got things a little, even though</b><b>you're outside of New York city, I think you</b><b>still got things a little bit later than people</b><b>lived in, like in more suburbia.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Cause we got things like,</b><b>like that, like we got MTV.</b><b>That was on my list.</b><b>MTV, I think it came, it came</b><b>August, like August something 1981.</b><b>I can't remember exactly the day</b><b>we got MTV the day it premiered.</b><b>I remember coming home from school or whatever</b><b>day that was and watching the premiere video</b><b>killed the radio star was the</b><b>first video ever played on MTV.</b><b>I remember watching that and I</b><b>was addicted and that's what I did.</b><b>Like after school, after I get my chores done</b><b>and all that, I'd watch MTV, but I think you</b><b>guys got it after us.</b><b>Well, what's interesting is I have a cousin who</b><b>grew up in Jersey city.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I remember her telling us about it and</b><b>waiting to your point, we didn't get it.</b><b>I don't think we got it to like, I dunno,</b><b>seventh or eighth grade, maybe six, whenever</b><b>it was, but it was after the fact.</b><b>I remember her saying, you</b><b>don't have MTV and she was shocked.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, you, you country people.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I think, but MTV was, that was everything.</b><b>And it was just videos.</b><b>It was just music.</b><b>We had VJs like Martha Quinn and um, uh,</b><b>Goodwin, Mark Goodwin was one.</b><b>Martha Quinn.</b><b>It really drove the music scene back then.</b><b>Even the Grateful Dead came up with videos.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Everybody got sucked into it.</b><b>It changed everything because it gave us access</b><b>to, to scene, uh, who the music live, but</b><b>without having to go like before that, you</b><b>always had to go to a concert to see them.</b><b>Well, or if they performed at a variety show on</b><b>TV, it wasn't even that it was creative,</b><b>artistic videos.</b><b>Like just creative stuff.</b><b>Remember the Michael Jackson thriller video.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>I remember watching that a Christmas dinner</b><b>with the whole family glued in for like 20</b><b>minutes.</b><b>Michael Jackson thriller</b><b>changed everything for sure.</b><b>That was like a mini movie.</b><b>That was a masterpiece.</b><b>There's no question about it culturally changed</b><b>landscape, but, um, MTV in general,</b><b>in any musician you liked, any band you liked</b><b>to be able to have access to them</b><b>like that, to be able to watch a video of the</b><b>songs you like on repeat.</b><b>And it was cause it was 24 seven music videos</b><b>and nothing shocked me more than when MTV</b><b>stopped playing music</b><b>videos and it went into TV shows.</b><b>I was shocked.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Well, aren't there like three or four MTV</b><b>stations or isn't there like a classics and a,</b><b>I think if you pay extra for that, but I don't</b><b>even think that one plays all music.</b><b>It's, it's weird.</b><b>Like VH one used to be music</b><b>videos and then it went to.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It went to TV.</b><b>Different genre though.</b><b>Writers.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>I don't even know what it was, but</b><b>it was more like soft rock stuff.</b><b>Michael Bolton and well, MTV</b><b>kind of got taken over by rap.</b><b>I remember Friday and Saturday nights.</b><b>It was all rap run DMC.</b><b>And yeah, I don't even remember.</b><b>They would have like metal night too.</b><b>Or it was just like a Metallica and they had</b><b>the headbangers headbangers ball.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It was awesome.</b><b>And then it like kids that don't know there's,</b><b>you know, there's a whole</b><b>generation that's watched MTV as like a TV</b><b>channel to watch shows.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It's weird.</b><b>And they have no idea</b><b>that that was not it at all.</b><b>It was music television.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So MTV was really, it is</b><b>near and dear to my heart.</b><b>It was a huge part of my childhood.</b><b>I know some musicians still do videos.</b><b>Like Billy strings just did one.</b><b>He's done a couple, right?</b><b>Um, but I don't think</b><b>it's really a thing per se.</b><b>Like the red hot chili peppers.</b><b>They had great videos.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, I think that, um, I think that Pete, they</b><b>still make videos, but it's, it's</b><b>weird, I don't know where you watch them.</b><b>So that's, that's one MTV.</b><b>We sound like boomers.</b><b>I know what the hell's going on.</b><b>All right.</b><b>Your, your turn.</b><b>I was thinking, okay.</b><b>So on my list, um, do you</b><b>remember frozen dinners?</b><b>TV dinners.</b><b>Is that what they're called?</b><b>TV dinners.</b><b>Well, I called them TV dinners.</b><b>My mom, we'd go to the grocery store and we</b><b>walked the aisle and I always</b><b>picked mine based on the dessert.</b><b>That's so funny.</b><b>I think I did too.</b><b>Most people did.</b><b>Like I, I liked that red</b><b>stuff, whatever the hell it was.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>I forgot.</b><b>Was that, that wasn't like a cherry pie.</b><b>Wasn't it?</b><b>Well, for me, you know, like for me today, I</b><b>don't really microwave anything.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I honestly don't remember.</b><b>They were microwave then though.</b><b>You made them once not</b><b>everyone had microwaves right away.</b><b>Like when we first got TV</b><b>dinners, you made them in the oven.</b><b>No.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>I don't think so.</b><b>And then once people</b><b>started getting microwaves, yeah.</b><b>But I started out with making TV</b><b>dinners in the oven, not a microwave.</b><b>I, cause I don't use a</b><b>microwave today for the most part.</b><b>I don't know if I've used one at once this year</b><b>and we, I remember nuking them.</b><b>Like over nuking them and</b><b>they had the plastic on top.</b><b>You'd have to cut the hole to</b><b>make sure you desert, maybe it's</b><b>they've covered or whatever.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Maybe the meat.</b><b>If it was even meat.</b><b>So bad.</b><b>You think about your, your</b><b>microwaving and there's plastic.</b><b>Yeah, totally.</b><b>In some and chemicals in that.</b><b>Paper tray that's lined with some waxy.</b><b>Well, when we first got</b><b>them, they were in metal.</b><b>That's why they went into the oven.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So you have to remember earlier than me then.</b><b>Well, okay.</b><b>So I had a single mom, right?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So her and I would go and we, I'd get to pick</b><b>out, it was a big deal.</b><b>Like I get to pick out my TV</b><b>dinners and we'd make them in the oven.</b><b>And that the thing was metal.</b><b>Like it wasn't the plastic</b><b>or the paper or whatever.</b><b>And then I think my mom's</b><b>first microwave, um, it was huge.</b><b>And it was like $600 or something.</b><b>500 pounds.</b><b>It is so heavy.</b><b>It's like the TVs you see.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>It was like life changing,</b><b>obviously, but yeah, the TV dinners.</b><b>And then, um, I remember</b><b>like the fried chicken.</b><b>I can still picture the way the fried chicken</b><b>tastes in those TV dinners.</b><b>I, I, you know, a totally</b><b>different way of getting to these TV</b><b>dinners is I'm like our</b><b>kids very selective eating.</b><b>So my dad would be like, what am I going to,</b><b>what are you going to eat?</b><b>And I think I went in on TV</b><b>dinners once and he's like, okay.</b><b>So then I never went shopping.</b><b>Like you did like this.</b><b>It wasn't an event.</b><b>It was just like there were</b><b>TV dinners in the freezer.</b><b>Cause you had a turkey.</b><b>Yeah, probably.</b><b>But I had, I love that Turkey one with the</b><b>slice turkey with the gravy.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>And the mashed potatoes.</b><b>And we would overnuke it.</b><b>So it would like burn on the sides.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It was like plasticy and that's so good.</b><b>That, that must wonder why</b><b>there's a whole epidemic.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Well, you know what, back then,</b><b>not everyone wasn't overweight.</b><b>Like people weren't</b><b>anyways, that's all another thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But, um, the mashed potatoes almost tasted like</b><b>Kentucky fried chicken mashed potatoes.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>So good.</b><b>And I remember I'd get the</b><b>meatloaf one, but I think that's because</b><b>it had the brownie or something.</b><b>Meatloaf.</b><b>I forgot about it.</b><b>I had that weird, like catch</b><b>up line of shit at the top.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>No, I love the TV dinners.</b><b>Do they even have TV dinners now?</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>I have, I'm announcing</b><b>something we're going to do.</b><b>So Gen X adulting is we're going to go see if</b><b>they have TV dinners and if they do,</b><b>we're going to get them and we're going to do a</b><b>live and we'll have TV dinners and</b><b>people can come in and talk to you.</b><b>You're a, you're gluten free.</b><b>You think you're going to pull them off?</b><b>There'll be something like</b><b>I'll be able to eat something.</b><b>I know.</b><b>We'll get the turkey dinner.</b><b>You can have my corn.</b><b>There you go.</b><b>You never know.</b><b>Now there could be gluten free</b><b>turkey dinners with the way life.</b><b>I'm going to double up.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>I'm going to double up on the food thing.</b><b>Did you ever have steak comes?</b><b>No, I did not even know</b><b>what that was until I met you.</b><b>Really?</b><b>I don't, I still don't</b><b>really know what that is.</b><b>It's like super thin sliced.</b><b>They said it was beef.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Not sure, but it was super sliced, super thin</b><b>sliced beef that you would fry in a</b><b>pan with like either butter or like in my dad's</b><b>case, he'd save the oil.</b><b>Cause my dad cooked.</b><b>He'd save the oil in the, in the</b><b>can and spread a little oil in there.</b><b>Throw a couple of steak comes on, dump a ton of</b><b>salt and a ton of pepper.</b><b>So good.</b><b>So wait, was it frozen?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So you're buying like frozen sliced beef.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's a good way to put it.</b><b>And then you would just, your dad would just</b><b>take it apart and like cook them.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You would almost get like, cause it would be</b><b>like maybe that thick or something.</b><b>I don't know, something like that.</b><b>And you'd kind of get a knife and you'd</b><b>separate them and then throw them in the</b><b>frying pan and do they still have steak comes?</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Well, I'm gluing.</b><b>I would eat some of those.</b><b>I, we're going to have to go on like an old,</b><b>you know, we'll do an old school</b><b>fight some tangy taffy.</b><b>In fact, if, if anyone listens to this and you</b><b>want to put in the comments.</b><b>Food, you remember, we'll try to find it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then we'll do a live one</b><b>night with all the different foods.</b><b>So, um, yeah, that'd be cool.</b><b>Trip to Walmart.</b><b>Maybe.</b><b>Right.</b><b>I don't know if I know publics might have it.</b><b>Maybe target.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So, um, did you watch electric company?</b><b>Electric company.</b><b>Which one was that I did, I</b><b>did, but I just don't remember.</b><b>Um, just these funky people singing.</b><b>It was like one of the show is like Sesame.</b><b>So there was Sesame street, mr.</b><b>Rogers and electric company.</b><b>I remember it was like, like hip and cool.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like it was cooler.</b><b>And that guy wore bell bottoms.</b><b>Um, I feel like he was in yellow, no orange.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>Maybe I'm getting confused with</b><b>yo gabba gabba cause yo gabba gabba</b><b>has electric company vibes.</b><b>But, um, so when I was in daycare, uh, we would</b><b>all sit around one of those</b><b>TVs, it's like the wooden TV and all of us kids</b><b>would sit around it and we'd</b><b>watch electric company, we'd</b><b>watch, um, Sesame street, mr.</b><b>Rogers, and also at home,</b><b>at home, I would watch mr.</b><b>Rogers too.</b><b>Cause memory had those weird puppets that like</b><b>old, like the old people or the</b><b>king and the queen, those</b><b>weird stuff going on there.</b><b>Puppets.</b><b>Now that I look back and I'm</b><b>like, those are weird puppets.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But I did love mr.</b><b>Rogers.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>All his messages.</b><b>I loved how he came in the OCD and me love the</b><b>fact he came in and put on new shoes.</b><b>He had house shoes.</b><b>So he took off the shoes that were</b><b>dirty and he put on his clean suit.</b><b>I was obsessed with that.</b><b>And then he put on a new jacket, his cardigan</b><b>indoors, switch, switch,</b><b>got his jacket and put on his cardigan.</b><b>And I was like, yes,</b><b>that's, I love that about mr.</b><b>Rogers.</b><b>You know, a lot of people pick on him for being</b><b>weird and stuff, right?</b><b>It's kind of, yeah.</b><b>He's got that reputation</b><b>of just being kind of weird.</b><b>Same with what's his name?</b><b>The painter Bob Ross.</b><b>Bob Ross.</b><b>But these are kind of in</b><b>hindsight and modern times.</b><b>These guys are fairly wholesome, pure, pure,</b><b>wholesome, decent people.</b><b>Kind of could use a little more.</b><b>I think so too.</b><b>I love mr.</b><b>So many lessons.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The, the trolley, the trolley would take you to</b><b>that land where the puppets were.</b><b>You know, um, mr.</b><b>Ed, I never watched mr.</b><b>Ed was in the same never watched it.</b><b>Why?</b><b>Because of animal rights.</b><b>No, no, no.</b><b>I, it was just never, I never watched it.</b><b>What about the Beverly hillbilly?</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>I watched that and I</b><b>watched, um, little rascals.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I love little rascals.</b><b>It was all black and white.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then leave it to beaver.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>And I loved, I love Lucy, but</b><b>all of these were black and white.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Honeymooners.</b><b>No, I didn't watch that.</b><b>You didn't watch that.</b><b>No, that weird.</b><b>I didn't watch that.</b><b>I didn't watch.</b><b>When I was a kid, 17th grade,</b><b>ninth, whatever, we would go roller</b><b>skating every Saturday night and come home.</b><b>That's a core memory.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It's a core memory.</b><b>Watch with roller skate,</b><b>come home around 11, 11 30 ish.</b><b>Catch the tail end of a Yankee game.</b><b>If it was still on watch star trek and then the</b><b>honeymooners, but I don't</b><b>remember if honeymooners was first or second,</b><b>but I'd watch star trek in the</b><b>honeymooners honeymooners every night.</b><b>I've seen every episode of that.</b><b>Really?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>A hundred percent.</b><b>So star trek, I would watch like after school</b><b>time when I'd get home,</b><b>like there'd be reruns.</b><b>So I'd watch, I didn't watch it like the night.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The night of, uh, no, it was okay.</b><b>So the night of shows.</b><b>Well, Saturday night live too.</b><b>I didn't really watch that</b><b>till I got older, but I did.</b><b>I remember being in second grade and Steve</b><b>Martin premiered the song King Tut.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And my parent, my mom and my</b><b>stepdad were having a party.</b><b>It was Northern California.</b><b>I was like, margaritas were flowing.</b><b>I was in my room and I had a little TV black</b><b>and white and it was on my dresser.</b><b>And I remember sitting in my room and watching</b><b>that and I was mesmerized by that</b><b>song, it became my favorite song.</b><b>Like that, that and the whole King Tut movement</b><b>of like 1978 or something.</b><b>Like, remember, I don't know</b><b>about you, but it took over.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like in Northern on the West coast, like</b><b>everyone was talking about King Tut.</b><b>I think they had</b><b>discovered King Tut or something.</b><b>It was around that time.</b><b>I think they had, I think</b><b>they had discovered his remains.</b><b>That would make sense.</b><b>Cause why else would Steve</b><b>Martin be doing a bit on it?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Probably was topical.</b><b>It was, but that song was awesome.</b><b>I could still sing that song</b><b>and his whole stick with that.</b><b>But it's speaking of like</b><b>shows that I did not miss.</b><b>And I think these were on</b><b>Saturday night was, and it went in order.</b><b>And I don't want to get the order wrong, but I</b><b>believe it started with chips.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Loveboat.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Fantasy Island.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Every Saturday.</b><b>I actually had them on my list.</b><b>They were earlier.</b><b>I think, um, actually I want to say fantasy</b><b>Island came on at nine o'clock.</b><b>No, I think Loveboat came on at nine and</b><b>fantasy Island came on at 10.</b><b>Oh, really?</b><b>It did.</b><b>I remember.</b><b>And cause I could stay up and watch it because</b><b>I, um, it was a Saturday.</b><b>And then I loved threes company.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>That was a different night.</b><b>That was a week night.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It feels like it.</b><b>Um, Laverne and Shirley.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>And happy days.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Trying to think, Oh, and, um, Alice.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Alice's restaurant.</b><b>WKRP in Cincinnati.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Love that.</b><b>And I love that song.</b><b>I still love it.</b><b>Sometimes yacht rock will play it.</b><b>And then, um, Oh, what's that other one where</b><b>they're in a news station?</b><b>Um, WKRP.</b><b>No.</b><b>Did you just say that?</b><b>I did.</b><b>They're reporters in a news Barney.</b><b>Barney.</b><b>It'll come to me.</b><b>It's a bunch of reporters.</b><b>Uh, it'll come to me.</b><b>I know what you're talking about.</b><b>There was also, I had on my list, um, the</b><b>people's court or night court,</b><b>whatever it was, we got a little older.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's like middle school ish.</b><b>You know, it's wild.</b><b>We're saying all this and I'm</b><b>trying to piece it together.</b><b>Like, how did I watch Saturday Night Live, the</b><b>honeymooners and Star Trek?</b><b>Like what and plus Yankee games.</b><b>I don't know what, how that</b><b>it's all blending because those</b><b>were Saturday night shows.</b><b>I watched Saturday Night Live every episode</b><b>from when I was like, I didn't,</b><b>I didn't want to, I would see it sometimes, but</b><b>I think I was in bed by then.</b><b>We actually, so this is great.</b><b>Um, I guess this is a core memory, but, and</b><b>every Saturday night, my parents</b><b>would go out with my aunt and uncle.</b><b>And then we'd go, and I was,</b><b>this is pre roller skating days.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>That's how this lines up.</b><b>We'd go to my, uh, Tara's</b><b>house, aunt Lorraine and uncle,</b><b>Tommy's, my cousin Terry's.</b><b>And, uh, they would all go out to the bar,</b><b>fairs bar and end over by room, New Jersey.</b><b>And we would spend the night there and we had</b><b>this babysitter who would watch us.</b><b>Cause we're all pretty young.</b><b>She was kind of mean.</b><b>She was a bitch actually, but I</b><b>remember, um, but we'd all stay up</b><b>and watch Saturday night live.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So it was cool.</b><b>So that was young.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I didn't think I was allowed to stay up.</b><b>I mean, I, cause that was, it ended at 1am.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Because I remember once I got</b><b>older, I would like middle school.</b><b>I watch it.</b><b>And then, um, but I do remember watching John</b><b>Belushi and, um, like Rosanna Rosanna</b><b>Dan and all that.</b><b>So I think I caught it</b><b>at different times enough.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>What about Starsky and Hutch?</b><b>Oh, of course.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Dukes of hazard.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>That brings me to my next core</b><b>memory with the Dukes of hazard.</b><b>I remember recording the intro to Dukes of</b><b>hazard on like a cassette tape,</b><b>like, like these up here.</b><b>Like this, the song.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The song.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And that was the thing.</b><b>Oh, I've seen that on like</b><b>Instagram, like Gen X beams and whatever.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The struggle of putting together a playlist</b><b>that the struggle was real.</b><b>Do you remember listening to, um, Casey Kasem</b><b>top 20 count down every Sunday morning?</b><b>And then you'd have your boom box.</b><b>I would, and I'd take a blank tape</b><b>and I would, when it was a song, I</b><b>knew I wanted, I would hit record.</b><b>So I would make a mix tape</b><b>off of Casey Kasem's top 20.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No doubt.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I would wait.</b><b>And then you still have to stop it and you'd</b><b>have to, you know, be, pay extra</b><b>attention so that you could get the beginning</b><b>and the end of your song.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah. I remember being a kid going to Sunday school</b><b>and then my dad usually drove us</b><b>and we'd be sitting in the car</b><b>sometimes and, and sitting, waiting.</b><b>Instead of hopping out for the number one song.</b><b>Cause it was the countdown.</b><b>Oh, it was a big deal.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I never missed that.</b><b>I remember when, uh,</b><b>foreigner urgent was number one.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was a big song.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So did you, um, have metal</b><b>lunchbox, a metal lunchbox?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You're gonna give me a</b><b>minute to think of what one I had.</b><b>Dukes of hazard.</b><b>I had a few because every year I got a new one.</b><b>I know I had Dukes of hazard.</b><b>Um, gosh, I can't think what, Oh, I wish I</b><b>could remember what other,</b><b>I know for sure.</b><b>I can picture the Dukes of hazard one.</b><b>And can you, can you can hear that sound when</b><b>you click the thing and you open it</b><b>and then did you have a</b><b>thermos inside that matched?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>A hundred.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I don't even, I didn't</b><b>even bring soup to school.</b><b>I think I would fill it with water because I</b><b>wanted to use that thermos so bad.</b><b>So the lunchbox was like, for</b><b>years I would get the metal lunchbox.</b><b>So that's, that's what I think.</b><b>That's all they made.</b><b>Probably.</b><b>Right. We didn't necessarily grow</b><b>up in a plastic generation.</b><b>No.</b><b>And then it switched to plastic</b><b>and then it switched to plastic.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So, um, do you remember</b><b>Greece being a big deal?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>The movie Greece.</b><b>Do you remember going to see it in the theater?</b><b>In the movie theater.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I think we saw it for the</b><b>first time at the Newton drive-in.</b><b>Oh, wow.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I feel like I think we saw it as another thing.</b><b>It was right.</b><b>And I remember vividly the night we went, we</b><b>went with my mom and my aunt and my</b><b>uncle, my cousins, and I remember sitting down,</b><b>the movie Greece changed my life.</b><b>I had never seen, I think I was in, Oh my gosh,</b><b>that would have been like 1979.</b><b>So that was probably what like second grade.</b><b>I, um, it was life changing.</b><b>I remember leaving there and</b><b>never being the same again.</b><b>There was something about that movie, the</b><b>music, the magic of it.</b><b>And it's still, I still cherish that movie.</b><b>And I remember my, one of my good friends at</b><b>the time, Alicia, she had genes.</b><b>And on the back pocket was the grease symbol.</b><b>I wanted those so bad.</b><b>We actually have the grease album.</b><b>It's mine.</b><b>Yeah, I know that I got then.</b><b>I remember going with my stepdad to a record</b><b>store and picking out that</b><b>album and I don't even know how he bought it,</b><b>but I would listen to his double</b><b>album.</b><b>I listened to that album every day.</b><b>I can't even tell you for at least, I don't</b><b>know, for years, like I loved that.</b><b>Greece was like pivotal for me.</b><b>And I, I wonder if for all Gen Xers, if they</b><b>like, if it was so monumental,</b><b>maybe just girls, I don't know.</b><b>No, I, I, it's absolutely.</b><b>Even for boys that has an impact.</b><b>I would think so.</b><b>The boys, the greasers, right?</b><b>And the racing and the whole</b><b>water thing and the drama and tension.</b><b>This is, and then waiting Sandy and seeing</b><b>Sandy go from like, yes, prim and proper</b><b>to this, like this hot pad, some leather.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I'll never forget when she walked up, I was mad</b><b>because I thought it was a different woman.</b><b>Like I didn't, it took me a minute to realize</b><b>she had transformed because I was</b><b>like seven or eight maybe.</b><b>And I thought, oh my God,</b><b>another woman's trying to steal Danny.</b><b>And then it was her.</b><b>And I was like, and then</b><b>those leather pants she had on.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>So that was, that was a</b><b>living Newton John, right?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So we all boys my age, I</b><b>think I had a crush on her.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So her and the wet Farrah Fawcett.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I mean, yeah, yeah.</b><b>Of course Farrah Fawcett was a</b><b>little boy's sex symbol type of thing.</b><b>Suzanne Summers.</b><b>Suzanne Summers.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Cheryl Ladd, I think.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The Daisy from the Duke.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>You know, um, Bach, Catherine Bach.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So Charlie's angels, that</b><b>was on a different night.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then, um, are you just</b><b>reminding me of another one?</b><b>Well, let me ask the bionic man.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then the woman, yeah.</b><b>Wonder Woman Wonder Woman.</b><b>But no, the, um, so the million dream, Magini,</b><b>no, it's the million dollar</b><b>man and the bionic woman member.</b><b>It was Lindsay Wagner.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Was the bionic woman.</b><b>I was obsessed with that.</b><b>I liked the million dollar man,</b><b>but I loved the bionic was that,</b><b>was that what the hell's his name?</b><b>Uh, Lee majors.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Lee major.</b><b>So that's when it would go, yeah.</b><b>And he would be like super strong and shit.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>What about the Hulk with Lou Ferrigno?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And there's a funny thing.</b><b>Uh, I saw a meme about</b><b>back then we didn't have CGI.</b><b>Our Hulk actually had to have muscles.</b><b>Like those are those muscles, you know?</b><b>Um, so those were all on, but then Charlie's</b><b>angels and all, I think</b><b>they were all kind of sex symbols.</b><b>I have two.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Um, one, just thinking of the</b><b>plastic stuff and I had it on my list.</b><b>This you probably never had</b><b>a stretch arm strong, right?</b><b>No.</b><b>Was he red?</b><b>No, he was the guys have to remember this.</b><b>He was this figure.</b><b>It talk about plastic.</b><b>He was figure like this</b><b>rubbery shell in a body, right?</b><b>It was muscular body with like blonde hair and</b><b>you could stretch them and you</b><b>could pull them in different directions.</b><b>We all had it as kids.</b><b>So kind of like the movie, the Incredibles.</b><b>How, not even, not even close.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>This is straight arms.</b><b>I've never heard of stretch arm strong.</b><b>That's amazing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But I bet that's cause I'm a girl.</b><b>I'm sure stretch arm</b><b>strong was on the West coast.</b><b>Oh, no, there's any.</b><b>It was like probably Hasbro or okay.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, so here's the other one</b><b>when you mentioned Greece.</b><b>Now I was, I can go there with Greece, but were</b><b>you a footloose person?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>I saw it in the theater.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, that was life changing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's what I was curious.</b><b>The opening to that movie was like insane.</b><b>There was like, I don't remember it.</b><b>It was the song, the footloose song.</b><b>And then it was like feet dancing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But it was tapping or something.</b><b>That song is insane.</b><b>That song is still so good.</b><b>And that was Kenny, Kenny Loggins.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And, um, I remember I never</b><b>heard anything like that before.</b><b>I was going to stand up, but</b><b>I just messed up your video.</b><b>I was going to grab a cassette for people who</b><b>don't know what a cassette looks like.</b><b>I'm well, I think they</b><b>can look on the internet.</b><b>We have at some point we should do a tour of</b><b>the studio to show people.</b><b>We should do a live or something.</b><b>Um, cause there is a whole</b><b>bunch of cassettes hanging over</b><b>Brian's head right now that</b><b>he's collected over the years.</b><b>Most of them are grateful to bootlegs.</b><b>Um, okay.</b><b>So what was I saying?</b><b>The Kenny Loggins.</b><b>So it was a footloose, but then he also, he</b><b>sang a lot, a lot of good ones.</b><b>Like for Top Gun, he sang danger zones.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Danger zone.</b><b>Really?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>He was hot in the, in</b><b>the seventies and eighties.</b><b>That was the Kenny Loggins.</b><b>Uh, was he a musician or a singer?</b><b>It was Loggins and</b><b>Messina is how he started out.</b><b>No, I love their amazing.</b><b>I know down at Pooh corner.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>But then, um, then he took off</b><b>with, he had like I'm all right.</b><b>And, um, this is it like a</b><b>whole bunch of good songs.</b><b>Why don't you sing those?</b><b>No.</b><b>Anyways, footloose life changing.</b><b>That's what I figured.</b><b>100%.</b><b>I can't say I agree.</b><b>I mean, I respect it, but it's not, I had a</b><b>feeling it was more, I think a</b><b>chick flick where, you know, everyone fell in</b><b>love with, uh, Kevin Bacon.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>100%.</b><b>Isn't his wife the star in that?</b><b>Like his real wife.</b><b>No, no.</b><b>Kara Sedgwick.</b><b>She's in, she's in that.</b><b>She was, I discovered Kara Sedgwick in singles.</b><b>That may be singles, which is</b><b>another good Gen X flick that singles.</b><b>If anyone really wants to know the vibe of the</b><b>grunge movement in real time</b><b>singles was filmed has what's her name in it.</b><b>That has a Kara Sedgwick.</b><b>It has a Bridget Fonda.</b><b>Um, Chris Cornell makes an appearance in it.</b><b>So does Eddie Vedder, Matt Dillon.</b><b>But who's the one, the one that I liked.</b><b>Who?</b><b>Oh no.</b><b>You're thinking of reality bites.</b><b>We're known a writer.</b><b>Reality bites.</b><b>Another excellent Gen X flick.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>So relatable love reality bites.</b><b>That's actually on my list.</b><b>Um, what I saw today, actually, and this really</b><b>pisses me off that we were not</b><b>dialed in, uh, red, hot chili peppers.</b><b>Um, Pearl jam and Nirvana.</b><b>I think it was, it was a triple</b><b>billing at the Salem Armory in 1992.</b><b>So we were in Oregon.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>We were within driving distance of Salem and</b><b>the tickets were like seven,</b><b>16 bucks or something in college.</b><b>Yeah, we should have gone.</b><b>That's crazy.</b><b>Stupid.</b><b>We miss the that's, that's the, where you</b><b>without the internet, you didn't know</b><b>everything that was going on.</b><b>Not at all.</b><b>You had to either get to be</b><b>dialed in on some mailing list.</b><b>Probably something like, I don't know how we</b><b>would find out about stuff, but yeah.</b><b>No, that would have been insane.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>That's crazy.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So I know, you know that this, I</b><b>know this is a core memory for you.</b><b>It's smoking the bandit.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Smoking the band.</b><b>My favorite movie.</b><b>I know.</b><b>And then cannonball run.</b><b>Oh, a hundred percent.</b><b>So those had that vibe, right?</b><b>I was watching those when I was like in first</b><b>grade and there's nudity.</b><b>There's like, yeah, there's a scene in</b><b>cannonball run where the one guy</b><b>watches behind the green door, which is a porn.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, what was the, the, um, I'll use the nice</b><b>term, the over the larger guide.</b><b>Dom de la.</b><b>We yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>What a comedian.</b><b>He was great.</b><b>And then do you remember that movie?</b><b>Um, convoy.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>With Chris, Chris, officer.</b><b>So do you remember that?</b><b>Like truckers were big for a while.</b><b>Like for CB radios.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And CB radios were like a big deal.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We had a CB radio.</b><b>My dad had one and I actually want one.</b><b>The CB absolutely in the car.</b><b>A hundred percent for my Jeep.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Anyways.</b><b>Um, yeah, for we, there was</b><b>like a whole trucker thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It was the same time.</b><b>There was a member of DJ and the bear.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>And then it was like something</b><b>about big Ben or something big Ben.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>I'm maybe I'm confusing stuff, but.</b><b>Oh, do you remember, um, the guy who had like</b><b>seven girlfriends, he was a trucker</b><b>and he had seven girlfriends and I can't</b><b>remember the name of it, but that song.</b><b>Um, yes.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>Somebody's going to know, but it was a trucking</b><b>trucker guy and he had seven girlfriends.</b><b>It was something about, Oh</b><b>gosh, I can't remember now.</b><b>It'll come to me though.</b><b>You know what was smoking a bandit.</b><b>This could potentially be embarrassing, but my</b><b>two of my best friends, uh, my</b><b>buddies, Matt and Kevin, and I would watch</b><b>smoking a bandit very frequently in high</b><b>school, like after school, like we'd watch it.</b><b>You're still watching it.</b><b>We're still watching it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And, and smoking the bandit too as well.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Yeah, but it wasn't as good.</b><b>The original was the, yeah.</b><b>I remember going to see smoking</b><b>the bandit with my dad or smoke.</b><b>I think I have a good memory of</b><b>that as smoking the bandit too.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So did you, um, have one of those viewfinder</b><b>things that you would go click</b><b>like you look at it like, um,</b><b>like, but not, oh, yeah, yeah.</b><b>Like in binoculars, circular</b><b>disc pictures and you can advance.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So you could pick the type of like, you could</b><b>pick like, uh, Europe and it would</b><b>be like pictures of different countries in</b><b>Europe and I love those.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was like, it's great.</b><b>I forgot about that.</b><b>And then you didn't have a</b><b>banana seat on your bike, right?</b><b>I did.</b><b>I had the, uh, Huffy buckaroo,</b><b>uh, and you had a banana seat.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>I forget.</b><b>I had to be young fifth, sixth grade, maybe</b><b>something, but I had the</b><b>Huffy buckaroo with the long banana seat and</b><b>the bar that, you know, the kind of</b><b>the thing you could press your</b><b>ass on that and then do wheelies.</b><b>Oh, well, I was not doing</b><b>that, but I loved my banana seat.</b><b>And so I had that when I was like first grade,</b><b>second grade, third grade,</b><b>I guess, did all kids bikes have banana bikes?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I don't know why they got rid of them.</b><b>Banana seats were comfortable.</b><b>They were so comfortable.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So this is so random.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So you woke up, I think most Gen</b><b>Xers, Saturday morning cartoons</b><b>were the highlight of our lives.</b><b>I was bowling.</b><b>You were bowling on Saturday morning.</b><b>So wait, you didn't wake up.</b><b>No, I did.</b><b>I did.</b><b>I think I would wake up and again, a lot of</b><b>this stuff blends, right?</b><b>Cause you jump into different things over time,</b><b>but it wasn't wake up and go do</b><b>some like recreational sport per</b><b>se until you hit a certain age.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like it feels like with our</b><b>kids, it's like get up and go.</b><b>Right.</b><b>No, but yeah, the cartoons, remember like they</b><b>had those Olympic things.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>And the Smurfs were all the rage.</b><b>And like the superheroes, like Superman,</b><b>Batman, what was that Olympic thing?</b><b>You just totally unlocked a core memory.</b><b>What was like animals competing?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>They were competing and they had</b><b>announcers and they were like almost</b><b>announcing it like adults, they were probably</b><b>seeing inappropriate shit,</b><b>but we had no clue.</b><b>I can picture it now, but I</b><b>totally forgot about that show.</b><b>We have to find out what that show was called.</b><b>I love that.</b><b>So I would come out, get out of bed, make</b><b>cereal, probably, I think it was</b><b>like a sugar sear like</b><b>frosted flakes or something.</b><b>Yeah, that's all we had.</b><b>And I would sit in front of</b><b>the TV and watch Saturday morning</b><b>cartoons for like three hours easily.</b><b>I feel like I would do</b><b>that and then go bowling.</b><b>I used to bowl every Saturday</b><b>morning for some age period.</b><b>I don't know what it was.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I do remember it was during the Smurfs</b><b>because the Smurfs, everyone at the bowl</b><b>and all he's talking about the Smurfs.</b><b>I love the Smurfs.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I was obsessed with the Smurfs.</b><b>I remember when the Smurfs, all of it.</b><b>Little Daisy Smurfs, whatever.</b><b>No, no, no.</b><b>It wasn't Daisy Smurfs.</b><b>I can't remember her name, but no, I was upset</b><b>and I had all the figurines.</b><b>They had Smurf figurines and I had</b><b>them on and I would like play it.</b><b>Like my Barbies.</b><b>That a cabbage patch.</b><b>I was never into that.</b><b>My sister and cousins were.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That whole thing.</b><b>I'm sure my mom was thrilled that I was not</b><b>into cabbage patch at all.</b><b>So, because remember there was like fighting.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>It was a huge deal.</b><b>People were getting in.</b><b>It was a big deal.</b><b>No, I was into Barbie.</b><b>I was so into Barbie.</b><b>I had so many Barbies and Ken's and the Smurfs.</b><b>I played Barbies.</b><b>You played with your sister and cousin.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh, I would play Barbies.</b><b>So that's one thing about, um, yeah, I didn't</b><b>have, I didn't grow up with siblings.</b><b>So I spent a lot of time on my own and I would</b><b>do a lot of like make believe</b><b>play and stuff.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So, um, do you remember there was a Folgers</b><b>commercial where the sister like</b><b>answers the door, this got this young man shows</b><b>up the door and a girl answers the</b><b>door and it's his sister, but</b><b>the way they're acting is weird.</b><b>Like you almost would think it might've been</b><b>her boyfriend, but you come to</b><b>find out it's, it's their brother and sister.</b><b>It was the weirdest Folgers commercial.</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>No, no recollection at all.</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>It was like, she made him</b><b>coffee before anyone wakes up.</b><b>And then they're like</b><b>giving eyes to each other.</b><b>It was very weird.</b><b>So you don't remember that Folgers commercial</b><b>that was on all the time.</b><b>And I remember being so</b><b>uncomfortable with that.</b><b>Um, do you remember that commercial that was,</b><b>uh, I can bring home the bacon.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>That was, that was a perfume.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So I'm going to say like</b><b>Angelie was not something like that.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>That lady was dancing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh, I completely remember.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was the beginning of</b><b>the brainwashing of what?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's where you guys gave up your feminine.</b><b>Any?</b><b>No, no.</b><b>It's where we had to buy into.</b><b>We can do it all and took on</b><b>everything instead of demanding.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>You want us to go work outside the home.</b><b>You need to help 50 50 in the house.</b><b>The domestic conversation never happened.</b><b>So that's, we've talked about this in other</b><b>episodes, but that commercial</b><b>is part of the propaganda that was fed because</b><b>I remember watching that and</b><b>thinking even at a young age,</b><b>Oh, I, I, I'm going to do it all.</b><b>I'm going to do everything.</b><b>Actually.</b><b>It's funny.</b><b>You say that cause there's guys were like, you</b><b>know, she was hot and it's like, I</b><b>got to get me one of them.</b><b>Well, there you go.</b><b>And therein lies the problem.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And therein lies why, why the Gen X women are</b><b>hitting midlife and telling the men,</b><b>I'm out of here.</b><b>If you don't need a hot woman who fries it up</b><b>in the pan and makes money.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It does the whole thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It cleans your house.</b><b>Got to get to it.</b><b>That's your laundry.</b><b>No, it would take two or three to truly do it.</b><b>No, I'm there's no one</b><b>can do it all and do it all.</b><b>Um, well, somewhere along the line.</b><b>Yes. Somebody, somebody is, um, not getting what</b><b>they should, whether it's at work,</b><b>whether it's with your children, whether it's</b><b>your house, whether it's you got,</b><b>you got me started.</b><b>You got me started.</b><b>I it's a whole thing.</b><b>Anyways.</b><b>Did you keep a comb in your back pocket?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Me too.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was a girl.</b><b>The black comb was your hair feathered.</b><b>My hair was so fathered.</b><b>So when we'd go to the roller rink, right?</b><b>You'd go to the roller rink.</b><b>You got a comb in your back pocket.</b><b>You start.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So us girls, we didn't totally, we did more of</b><b>like checking our hair, but</b><b>it was part down the middle feathered.</b><b>Now was yours a black comb or like a purple one</b><b>that kind of was bigger?</b><b>Cause I kind of remember those two.</b><b>So it was, no, it wasn't like the boring black.</b><b>It had the handle and it was sort of glittery,</b><b>pretty color with ours.</b><b>We had the, the kind of the wider teeth and</b><b>then the narrower teeth in a way.</b><b>No, no, this was just like a</b><b>cute comb, like a girl comb.</b><b>So speaking of roller skating, I also loved</b><b>going to the roller rink.</b><b>That's a huge core memory.</b><b>One of the things I remember from it is</b><b>privatized by Hall of notes.</b><b>They would play it.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>And when it would go that</b><b>everyone would stamp their, their skates.</b><b>I remember that I love the roller rink.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was the best.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I wish that that was a thing still.</b><b>I think they're, I think they're around, but I</b><b>just think it's such a novelty.</b><b>Now it's probably so expensive.</b><b>All right.</b><b>Do you remember when arcades appeared?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like we were alive when there were no video</b><b>games and then when arcades appeared.</b><b>That's not true.</b><b>We had the Atari 2600 and we had the, but we</b><b>were alive before all that.</b><b>Pong and but we were alive before that.</b><b>You know what I mean?</b><b>Like we, when we were young</b><b>is when video games came up.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So yeah.</b><b>Atari.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Was that Pong?</b><b>So Pong, but then arcades.</b><b>So we at the bowling</b><b>alley, they had arcade games.</b><b>So you'd bowl.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Then after bowling, you put</b><b>your quarters in and play games.</b><b>It was a quarter.</b><b>Doug asteroid pack.</b><b>Pac-Man and then Ms.</b><b>Pac-Man soup.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But Pac-Man, remember when Pac-Man came out?</b><b>That was huge.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was huge.</b><b>I was so good at it.</b><b>I was so good at Ms.</b><b>Pac-Man, but it was a quarter.</b><b>It wasn't, we put our quarters in.</b><b>It was a quarter.</b><b>There were some games so that</b><b>then they jumped to 50 cents.</b><b>Well, like everything.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But I remember going to arcades and spending</b><b>time in arcades and you</b><b>would just, you literally, what you did there</b><b>was play games for like hours.</b><b>Where was, where was your arcade located?</b><b>Like we had one.</b><b>I was trying to, the mall, the mall.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's the one of us.</b><b>Because we would go to the</b><b>mall and just walk around.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So orange Julius, did you have that?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh, nothing is so as good as an orange Julius.</b><b>They're so good.</b><b>Oh, I loved him.</b><b>It was like a creamsicle.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So we would walk around</b><b>and we'd go into the arcade.</b><b>We'd go to orange Julius.</b><b>We'd go to Spencer's.</b><b>Yeah, totally.</b><b>And there was like inappropriate stuff in there</b><b>that I totally didn't know what</b><b>it was, but I knew it wasn't okay.</b><b>And there was like Frederick's of Hollywood and</b><b>it was like, Ooh, because</b><b>I think that was before</b><b>Victoria's secret really took over.</b><b>I think Frederick's was our lingerie.</b><b>Yeah. You know, what I liked about Spencer's was</b><b>besides all the inappropriate shit.</b><b>Whereas the black room, like, or the black</b><b>light room, with all those cool</b><b>posters, black light, black light posters.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was a whole thing.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>I, that would be cool.</b><b>Favorites was, uh, the Jim Morrison poster.</b><b>Do you remember that one?</b><b>It was the Jim Morrison black light.</b><b>No, not vivid.</b><b>That was so cool.</b><b>I forgot about the black light room.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So would you spend a ton of time at the mall?</b><b>A lot.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, I was going to say that that's one where I</b><b>don't think the kids do it a little</b><b>bit, but they burn out of it.</b><b>But we have the malls for us went from a young</b><b>age all the way up through, through</b><b>high school.</b><b>Well, because we were there</b><b>at the beginning of malls.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Probably the mall was like a</b><b>big deal because it was new.</b><b>Even for, even for like our parents, probably.</b><b>Oh, let's go to the mall.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, the mall was, was everything.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The mall is such a nostalgic feeling going to</b><b>the mall and it would just be this</b><b>wonderland you could spend</b><b>hours there with your friends.</b><b>I feel like back then, and I could be wrong,</b><b>but I feel like maybe there were</b><b>more stores that kids could go in, like middle</b><b>school, high school age kids could</b><b>go in where now, I don't know, like, you know,</b><b>there's like Lululemon and like</b><b>stuff like that, where I think</b><b>there was more like fun stores.</b><b>Well, for us, from what I</b><b>recall, we had the arcade.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Then you had like Walden books.</b><b>We'd go in, spend a lot of time in there.</b><b>We had a baseball shop card.</b><b>I used to collect baseball cards.</b><b>Um, there's none of that now.</b><b>There's a record store.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>The record store, you'd</b><b>walk up and down the aisle.</b><b>Did you have tower records?</b><b>Um, tower came later, but I don't, it felt like</b><b>we had the record store</b><b>kept changing for some reason.</b><b>He just completely unlocked a memory for me.</b><b>So in the mall, one of the things we would do</b><b>is go to tower records and spend</b><b>like a solid hour easily</b><b>looking through all the albums.</b><b>Like that was what we did.</b><b>And on the back behind the</b><b>cashiers were the new albums.</b><b>Like that had just come out.</b><b>So you could see what was new.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, tower records was a place as</b><b>soon as I would get to the mall.</b><b>First stop tower records.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I would buy 45.</b><b>So you remember 45?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>I saw why we still have them.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>So many 45s and you'd have to put that little</b><b>plastic desk in so you could play it.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>Quick sidebar on the vinyl.</b><b>So grateful that just released the beacon</b><b>theater in 1976 on vinyl.</b><b>And we got to get it.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Um, do you remember when</b><b>Walkmans came on the picture?</b><b>Yep.</b><b>And what a big deal that was to be able to wear</b><b>your music and walk around literally.</b><b>Yeah, that's kind of</b><b>Walkman, but that was huge.</b><b>And actually, um, people don't realize, well,</b><b>young kids don't, right?</b><b>They have air buds with, you know, Bluetooth.</b><b>We had those like headphones that were not big,</b><b>like, uh, like we're wearing.</b><b>They weren't these.</b><b>No, they were kind of</b><b>that in between fuzzy thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then there were the ear and then there were</b><b>the small ones that were like, it was</b><b>just the metal strip and</b><b>then a small thing right here.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No Walkmans.</b><b>That was like, that was it.</b><b>You'd put your, your tape in there.</b><b>When I was, uh, when I was in high school and</b><b>we'd go to away games, I remember I</b><b>would listen to, I had a Walkman with the</b><b>headphones we just described.</b><b>I'd listen to Bob Dylan blood on the tracks to</b><b>these games and back and forth.</b><b>I listened to that album.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>500 times.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, it gave us the ability to listen to music</b><b>outside of our home, outside of a car.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It, it allowed and choose your own music</b><b>instead of whatever was coming on the radio.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>It gave us autonomy when it came to our own.</b><b>Well, before that was boom boxes, right?</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Um, but then if you walked</b><b>around with it, it's loud.</b><b>Everyone can hear this.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>This was your private experience.</b><b>The Walkman gave you that</b><b>honestly was between that and MTV.</b><b>I was like entire records.</b><b>I was in heaven.</b><b>Um, did you, um, okay.</b><b>Did you remember there were</b><b>smoking sections everywhere we went?</b><b>There was smoking sections in McDonald's.</b><b>We actually had a</b><b>smoking section at our school.</b><b>Oh, for sure.</b><b>Where the smokers went.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But like any place, even if you went to</b><b>McDonald's, there were ashtrays and</b><b>there was smoking airplanes had smoking.</b><b>So airplanes.</b><b>I don't remember.</b><b>I guess they had.</b><b>They did.</b><b>Cause I remember I'd fly back and</b><b>forth between Oregon and Michigan.</b><b>It was the back.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like that made the biggest difference is that,</b><b>okay, it's just in the back.</b><b>Um, every restaurant when the hostess would ask</b><b>you how many people, and then</b><b>the second question was smoking or non-smoking.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I forgot about that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>They were everywhere you went.</b><b>I think that's an improvement in the world.</b><b>Oh, for sure.</b><b>Obviously.</b><b>But at the time we were just used to that.</b><b>Like no matter where you'd go.</b><b>Smoking sections.</b><b>Not just used to it.</b><b>I remember driving and I think I've talked</b><b>about this in my relatives cars</b><b>who would smoke, we'd be in the back seat</b><b>without seat belts and a big sedan.</b><b>There's along the roads and they'd be up there</b><b>smoking and blowing it in the car.</b><b>That's my mom.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>My mom smoked Virginia Slims.</b><b>Um, okay.</b><b>So do you, did you bite your pencil?</b><b>Do you remember bite it?</b><b>Like, so we'd all have</b><b>the yellow pencils, right?</b><b>The number two pencils.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Do you remember biting your pencil?</b><b>I do, but not, not like a, like,</b><b>like just where it was all bit.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yes, but not really.</b><b>It's not a core memory.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>I used to bite all my, I love the way, like not</b><b>that it tasted, but just</b><b>that feeling of biting into the pencil.</b><b>And then do you remember?</b><b>It's funny you say that I remember the bite and</b><b>the how it broke through the</b><b>paint and then you'd get to that next layer.</b><b>Then you'd move on.</b><b>That kind of, yeah.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Crazy.</b><b>And I, and I can, I can,</b><b>I can like not taste it.</b><b>I can smell it.</b><b>Taste it.</b><b>Smell it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So then did you, um, go to the pencil sharpener</b><b>just because you were bored</b><b>and want to get out of your seat?</b><b>But then that thing like would always be just a</b><b>little close enough to the wall</b><b>where you'd like get your knuckles.</b><b>You remember that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah, I do.</b><b>So you kind of would have to like hold it and</b><b>do it, but, and it would have that</b><b>sound, but it was, I remembered, yeah,</b><b>sometimes you'd be like this, but I</b><b>remember doing it and trying to make enough</b><b>noise to be disruptive to the</b><b>class to, to be that,</b><b>why does that not shock me?</b><b>Why does that not do you</b><b>were Dennis the menace?</b><b>There's no question about that.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>It's, so yeah.</b><b>Do you remember how we used to like, not you</b><b>and me, but how, um, we would</b><b>slow dance in high school.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>He holds your arms straight out.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It was either that or you were like, like</b><b>totally hugging and like,</b><b>like as close as you could be.</b><b>I don't think I ever did the closest.</b><b>No, no, maybe for like prom.</b><b>Cause by then I had a girl for that.</b><b>So I'm talking about middle school, but like</b><b>the, the back and forth,</b><b>just one step, one step.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But I loved middle school dances.</b><b>Like, so tears for fear, all the</b><b>eighties, like Madonna, Prince, um,</b><b>tears for fears, the pesh mode.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like that was our Michael Jackson.</b><b>That was our music at our middle school dances.</b><b>And it was new.</b><b>We would dance like, I would never dance.</b><b>You didn't, did you go?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But I hindsight, I was too</b><b>immature to be there and embrace it.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Other kids were, I was probably</b><b>mocking them out of insecurity.</b><b>Realistically, but well, did boys dance that</b><b>you remember a handful?</b><b>Wait, well, when we were in fifth or sixth</b><b>grade, maybe a little earlier,</b><b>we had a breakdance club.</b><b>I remember breakdancing.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>We had a breakdance club.</b><b>I wasn't in it.</b><b>I couldn't do it again.</b><b>It was, that wasn't my thing, but there were</b><b>some guys who were breakdancing</b><b>and spinning and shit on their heads and stuff.</b><b>And I remember actually at Helen</b><b>Morgan school, we were in pods.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>They had a pod.</b><b>Here's your five classes for second grade.</b><b>And here's the pod over</b><b>here, you know, down the hall.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I remember these guys, they had</b><b>breakdancing and, and like the whole,</b><b>it was like embraced kind of like, Hey,</b><b>so-and-so is going to</b><b>breakdance and everyone's watching.</b><b>Breakdancing was like a big</b><b>deal and they were parachute pants.</b><b>That's what got parachute.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I had parachute.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And like the windbreaker matching windbreaker.</b><b>Whatever.</b><b>So I never wore members only.</b><b>I had a member Sony jacket.</b><b>I think everybody did.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>So we did OP ocean, and then of course polo.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>And okay.</b><b>So OP ocean Pacific guests.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>I remember guests overalls were.</b><b>I was never into guests, but</b><b>those more of a girls thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then eyes odds.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, okay.</b><b>So the cologne was, um, that green polo.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I still, I still like.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>And then, and then your car.</b><b>I was never into that.</b><b>So your car was huge among the boys.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But no, to bring back to</b><b>breakdancing, I forgot that was like,</b><b>we were there in breakdancing appear.</b><b>Yeah. Yeah.</b><b>It's so cool.</b><b>Um, just going back to the fashion stuff.</b><b>I had a pink Ralph Lauren, uh, polo jacket.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like eighth grade or something.</b><b>So I was all in on that.</b><b>Well, that was Miami vice, right?</b><b>Or had Miami vice shown up yet?</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>Well, no, a pink, that would have</b><b>been preppy, the preppy handbook.</b><b>When did Miami vice show up for us?</b><b>Like maybe ninth grade.</b><b>Yeah, maybe.</b><b>Cause then it was the white linen blazer</b><b>pushing your sleeves up.</b><b>Yeah. So you could see your forearms.</b><b>That was like a whole thing.</b><b>We had a friend whose dad</b><b>was an exec at ocean Pacific.</b><b>So he had all the OP stuff.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>And then everybody got into OP and Ralph Laura</b><b>and like polo was huge.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Members only jackets were huge.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, sarin Getty sunglasses.</b><b>I think they were right.</b><b>Do you remember?</b><b>No, we were Ray-Ban.</b><b>We were not Ray-Ban until</b><b>probably a little bit later.</b><b>We were so Ray-Ban.</b><b>They had those aviator ones.</b><b>Remember they had the glasses and they had like</b><b>the, like the little side things.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Maybe they were, oh, you know,</b><b>Carreras like for Porsche Carreras.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>That might've been more the guys probably, but</b><b>when risky business came out,</b><b>yeah, it was probably changed.</b><b>It was all about risky business.</b><b>It was all about, uh, Ray-Ban probably.</b><b>I don't remember.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I remember the black Ray-Bans.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Did you have swatch?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And you could change the faces or something.</b><b>I had a black swatch watch.</b><b>I bought at the Macy's counter for $35.</b><b>There you go.</b><b>I love my swatch watch.</b><b>And then, um, vans back then were checkered.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>So they were either, uh, you</b><b>could get red and white checkered,</b><b>which are the ones I had.</b><b>You could get pink and white.</b><b>I had pink and white.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>I went through this whole,</b><b>you went through a preppy phase.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then, um, you wore them with no socks.</b><b>Probably.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then you get black and white.</b><b>And I think you get blue and white checkered</b><b>too, but it was all checkered.</b><b>Like the way vans is now is not how it was.</b><b>Van is a shoe now.</b><b>It was, it has like actual like chill styles.</b><b>You can still get the checkered.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But it has, they have clothes.</b><b>That's a whole thing.</b><b>But when we bought vans back</b><b>then, they were like 30 or $35.</b><b>I bet the checkered ones are like 135.</b><b>Probably.</b><b>I feel like they were$25 or something.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I love my van so much.</b><b>Um, okay.</b><b>So did you on your Christmas tree, did you have</b><b>either, um, like that tinsel decor</b><b>or was it like hand, was it the ones where you</b><b>would take a string of tinsel</b><b>and put on your Christmas tree or was it like</b><b>the rope type tinsel wrapping?</b><b>So for me, two memories would be, we had the</b><b>rope, the gold rope, and we'd do it</b><b>as a family, you know, work it around.</b><b>And then my aunt, Lorraine and</b><b>uncle Tommy had the stuff you put on.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah. And some families would throw kind of toss that</b><b>on, but then some families</b><b>would do one at a time.</b><b>Why?</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>Would you know that my grandma did it?</b><b>My grandma did one at a time.</b><b>And, um, I don't know.</b><b>I don't, I think she enjoyed it probably</b><b>because she had four kids and it was the</b><b>time she could be like, leave me alone.</b><b>I'm decorating the tree.</b><b>Did you grow up being afraid of Christmas trees</b><b>burning down your house?</b><b>Of course.</b><b>No, I thought that was a daily occurrence.</b><b>I thought every Christmas, like</b><b>half the people I knew their Christmas</b><b>tree was going to catch on fire.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Were you afraid of quicksand?</b><b>Because for some reason we were all supposed to</b><b>be afraid of quicksand.</b><b>I think I'm still afraid of quicksand, even</b><b>though I've never seen or been</b><b>around quicksand, but I picture it happening.</b><b>Everything we watched quicksand.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Something can happen.</b><b>You say that road runner and</b><b>wild coyote, Tom and Jerry.</b><b>Star Trek.</b><b>There's quicksand in one of the episodes.</b><b>Yeah, maybe.</b><b>Oh no.</b><b>There's quicksand in fantasy Island.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I'm sure chips had a quicksand episode where</b><b>they had to come save them.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>What about the sleaze stacks?</b><b>Uh, they're my favorites.</b><b>Yeah, totally.</b><b>Those things would freak me out.</b><b>Have you ever seen that meme where they showed</b><b>the free, the sleaze stack and</b><b>it's like when your mushrooms just hit?</b><b>No.</b><b>No, it's hilarious.</b><b>And then was that the only dinosaur that wasn't</b><b>a dinosaur land of the loss.</b><b>Was it dinosaurs?</b><b>Yeah, but we've talked about that other one.</b><b>You remember this or that</b><b>I can't even describe it.</b><b>It's like a, this round thing with like, like</b><b>shaggy that was like living in a</b><b>house and they live by a beach.</b><b>That'll come to you.</b><b>I can't remember the name of the movie, but, or</b><b>the show, it was like a show.</b><b>And it was like this.</b><b>I don't even, I can't even picture that now.</b><b>We've talked about it, but.</b><b>Gosh, I can't even picture that.</b><b>You know, what's the trip is for us.</b><b>Like Disney movies weren't a thing.</b><b>Those really started, I</b><b>mean, they were like Pinocchio.</b><b>Remember?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But Disney on Sunday nights with Herbie, the</b><b>love bug and the Waltons.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Herbie, the love.</b><b>I loved her be the love.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>All those movies.</b><b>What about, um, the pink Panther?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Love the pink Panther.</b><b>The cartoon.</b><b>I wasn't really into the guy.</b><b>The live action detective.</b><b>No, it was weird.</b><b>You remember, uh, um, two, uh, uh, Mr.</b><b>Magoo.</b><b>I didn't watch that.</b><b>Oh, you don't watch that.</b><b>No.</b><b>What about the gorilla in the window?</b><b>How much is that monkey in the</b><b>window or the McGillic gorilla?</b><b>It sounds familiar.</b><b>That was that when we were</b><b>young, like kindergarten.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>It all blends, man.</b><b>It's I know, but I think that was</b><b>when we were younger, but I forgot</b><b>about her be the love bug.</b><b>Remember the Waltons.</b><b>They'd be like, good night, Mark.</b><b>And I can I can I, I didn't watch that as much</b><b>as little house on the prairie.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>I love little house on the prairie.</b><b>I've seen every little</b><b>house in the prairie episode.</b><b>I watch that.</b><b>I read all the books.</b><b>I was obsessed with that family.</b><b>I didn't read the books, but I, we used to</b><b>watch it was like Sunday nights.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Wasn't that kind of like</b><b>little house on the prairie?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Herbie and Waltons.</b><b>I think I went to bed when</b><b>Waltons, but, um, Oh, the other one,</b><b>Grizzly Adams, loved Grizzly Adams.</b><b>I love that show.</b><b>I loved Grizzly Adams.</b><b>That was a great, there's another</b><b>one actually, um, mutual of Omaha.</b><b>That was like the wild kingdom.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Well, the animals.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was cool.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But, um, Hey, Grizzly Adams, Grizzly Adams,</b><b>Grizzly Adams was cool.</b><b>I was trying to think there</b><b>was something else you said.</b><b>It'll come back to me.</b><b>Um, okay.</b><b>What else?</b><b>I wonder if we covered like</b><b>everything that I wrote down.</b><b>I'm reading it real quick.</b><b>Uh, Saturday morning cards.</b><b>Oh, did you ever do Columbia house where you</b><b>could buy like a bunch of tapes?</b><b>I think I did it as an adult too.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I think we changed our name or something.</b><b>I think I remember doing, I think in high</b><b>school or something, I got like,</b><b>what would you get like not a hundred tapes?</b><b>No, it wasn't a hundred.</b><b>Well, it was a lot for a penny.</b><b>You know what I did actually.</b><b>Um, it was something like that.</b><b>It might've been Columbia house, but I got this</b><b>whole blues collection.</b><b>I've got like the Robert Johnson and the</b><b>howling wolf and all these</b><b>incredible blues artists.</b><b>I have a one from that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Something like that.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>That's so funny.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Did you ever have a radio, a</b><b>stereo in your car that you pulled out?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>A hundred percent.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I saw in my first car, my first</b><b>car was a 1965 Apple red Mustang.</b><b>I had no business receiving that car.</b><b>Um, it was the most gloriously beautiful car I</b><b>could ever have wanted.</b><b>It was my dream car, but I was 16</b><b>years old and I crashed it twice.</b><b>I had no business driving that car.</b><b>But it was fast, but I</b><b>had a Kenmore pullout in it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And would Kenwood Kenwood.</b><b>What did I say?</b><b>Kenmore Kenwood.</b><b>And so when I would go to like, I</b><b>was in high school, if I went to</b><b>dinner, like my friends or my boyfriend, I</b><b>would bring it into the restaurant</b><b>or I'd put it in my bag.</b><b>Oh, you had the room removable plate.</b><b>No, I pulled the whole thing out.</b><b>Interesting.</b><b>No, I had the whole thing</b><b>and I would put it in my bag.</b><b>Interesting.</b><b>And then when I get in my</b><b>Mustang, I put it back in.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I would take it with me.</b><b>That's weird.</b><b>Why?</b><b>So no one would steal it.</b><b>It was a removable thing.</b><b>Like when we were younger, people would break</b><b>into cars and steal shit.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, I had a 76 Chevy Monza and</b><b>I don't even know what that is.</b><b>Stock, the stock car came with</b><b>an eight cylinder motor, right?</b><b>Okay.</b><b>And mine had a four cylinder.</b><b>That's like a V8, right?</b><b>It was a V8.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So instead of city, if it had the, the V8, it</b><b>would have sat flat, right?</b><b>Aerodynamically designed.</b><b>Mine had a four cylinder.</b><b>So it faced up a little bit, totally dangerous,</b><b>changed the dynamics of how</b><b>you steer, but I had a, I paid $250 for it.</b><b>My parents did.</b><b>And my stereo, I had a whole</b><b>pioneer system and I put it in myself.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Brand the cables did.</b><b>I had speakers in the doors,</b><b>six inch speakers in the doors.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Then six by nine speakers in the back.</b><b>Wow.</b><b>So we, yeah, that was the whole thing.</b><b>And that doesn't sound like a very big car.</b><b>No, it was so loud.</b><b>It was, it was amazing.</b><b>It was just crazy.</b><b>It was awesome.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's a Mons, I get it.</b><b>I don't know what that is, but that sounds like</b><b>it was a good time when she got in there.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So did you ever, I don't know, you probably</b><b>never went through this, but, and I</b><b>don't know if this is just because of my</b><b>upbringing or whatever, or if it's a</b><b>girl thing, but did you</b><b>ever, I'm threatened to run away.</b><b>Not that I recall, but not that I recall.</b><b>So I would say I'm going to run away like a</b><b>decent, but I think there's kids who had</b><b>a normal upbringing and also did this.</b><b>If they had like, we're upset with something.</b><b>Our daughter.</b><b>Well, yeah, that's true.</b><b>She did it when she was like three.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, I, but one time I did, I</b><b>grabbed my white teddy bear.</b><b>I love that teddy bear.</b><b>I think I still have it in</b><b>our storage unit somewhere.</b><b>I'd grabbed my white teddy bear and like a doll</b><b>and we were at my mom's friend's</b><b>house and I left and so it wasn't even my</b><b>neighborhood and I think I made it and I</b><b>would have been kindergarten or first grade.</b><b>I think I walked for five minutes and which is</b><b>a long time, long time to walk</b><b>for five minutes as a little kid.</b><b>And then I remember that</b><b>feeling of, okay, I'm like far.</b><b>And no one came after you.</b><b>Well, no.</b><b>So right as I felt like I'm far, which was</b><b>probably like three blocks, I turn</b><b>around and my mom's running towards me.</b><b>So yeah, like I, she, yeah, ran and got me, but</b><b>that was a thing is like, I'm</b><b>done, I'm going to run away.</b><b>But actually that time I tried it and then you</b><b>get that, that feeling like, did</b><b>you ever lose your, your mom in a store?</b><b>Um, I remember like hiding under, like being</b><b>at, I think it was at Macy's and</b><b>hiding in like the clothes.</b><b>Oh, so you traumatized your mom.</b><b>I feel like I did, but I thought it was funny</b><b>because I was hiding in</b><b>like the rack of clothes, right?</b><b>Of course.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Brian, Brian, Brian.</b><b>And I think they, I feel like</b><b>the store manager got involved.</b><b>Nice.</b><b>I don't remember if this happened</b><b>or not or if I'm imagining it, but</b><b>I really think it happened.</b><b>I feel like your mom has</b><b>mentioned something about this.</b><b>I wish she would come on cause</b><b>I, she'd have some good stories.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh, yeah.</b><b>She probably has the tea.</b><b>Yeah, she does.</b><b>I remember she told a story about you didn't</b><b>want to go to dinner and you guys</b><b>battled about that and she threatened to break</b><b>your fish tank with an ax if you</b><b>didn't go to dinner and another</b><b>time she cut up your pants because you</b><b>wouldn't go to dinner.</b><b>This should have been red flags</b><b>for me that you don't go to dinner.</b><b>You know, what's funny is one time she.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Very true.</b><b>She used to cut my hair at</b><b>times or like dude, like a trimming.</b><b>And I remember once she nicked my ear and your</b><b>ear bleeds pretty good, right?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I remember seeing it and then</b><b>I pretended to really be in pain.</b><b>I started crying.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That wasn't cool.</b><b>You tormented.</b><b>No.</b><b>So I wonder like I was, I was the type of Gen X</b><b>kid and it could have been because</b><b>my parents are divorced</b><b>remarried to other people that a lot.</b><b>I came from cast.</b><b>That's a totally different episode.</b><b>If anyone's interested in that, go listen to</b><b>probably episode 13 and you'll hear</b><b>my story, but, um, so I was, I was like pretty</b><b>compliant and I just, I wanted</b><b>friends and, um, so I was,</b><b>I, and I followed the rules.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I think you were the opposite of that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>A hundred percent.</b><b>I was an asshole at times for sure.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But you could get away with more back then kids</b><b>could get away with more back then.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I mean, it's almost like when you ask if, you</b><b>know, did I ever run away?</b><b>I can't, it's like that didn't, I don't think</b><b>that entered my mind ever.</b><b>I don't even know any friends that did.</b><b>And I feel like I know of some people that</b><b>didn't and we're like, why?</b><b>Huh?</b><b>What, what is this?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So you guys were just very stable, very fine.</b><b>And you were more running the show.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I feel like I ran the show kind of, you know,</b><b>and I had a great, I ran the</b><b>show in many ways, not a hundred percent, you</b><b>know, but, but relatively</b><b>compared to what you're saying, you know, I had</b><b>a lot of control or autonomy.</b><b>Uh, but also had a good,</b><b>you know, decent thing going.</b><b>So do you think there's things you did though,</b><b>as a quote unquote bully, then</b><b>that now kids couldn't do or get away with or</b><b>somebody's parent would</b><b>probably call the school over.</b><b>Yeah, probably.</b><b>What were some of the things you did?</b><b>I don't want to sell myself out, but I will say</b><b>this, like, you know, I was</b><b>thinking about this because, you know, you'd</b><b>planted the seed, but we used to</b><b>snow throw snowballs at cars.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, you know, as when it snowed, it was like,</b><b>cool, but wait till it actually</b><b>we didn't wait till it got dark.</b><b>Uh, we used to throw eggs at cars.</b><b>Mm-hmm.</b><b>Um, that was always fun.</b><b>We would do ding dong ditching.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>And that was fun too.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I'm glad kids still do that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, mischief night,</b><b>we would TP houses, trees.</b><b>So we TP, like when we would have a sleepover.</b><b>I like a girl's house.</b><b>We would sneak out like the girl.</b><b>We would, all of us girls would</b><b>sneak out with a bunch of toilet</b><b>paper and we would TP houses.</b><b>That was the thing.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>What is it?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We used to take soap and put it on windows of</b><b>cars and, you know, right.</b><b>Things are just like really cover like the</b><b>front window and shit like that.</b><b>You never did that.</b><b>Oh, that was never did that.</b><b>I don't think I ever threw.</b><b>I never threw eggs at cars.</b><b>I did throw eggs at houses once.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We did that too.</b><b>We were TPing and I was like, Oh my God.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Now did you put rocks in your</b><b>snowballs that you threw at cars?</b><b>No.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So you didn't go that far.</b><b>No, we didn't go that far.</b><b>Did you ever steal stuff?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like from like a, like a seven 11.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Seven 11 or like the ACME or whatever.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Not from people.</b><b>Candy.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Candy.</b><b>A Jolly Ranchers.</b><b>I would steal those a hundred percent.</b><b>So that was all profit.</b><b>A hundred percent profit.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah. Yeah.</b><b>So how would you steal?</b><b>Where would you put it?</b><b>All right.</b><b>So we had that I had this, well, you could</b><b>just, I had this eyes odd jacket</b><b>that had hand pockets like this, right?</b><b>You put your hands, like a kind</b><b>of put your hands through here.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And you could kind of do that.</b><b>Like hoodies are.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like a hoodie, a hoodie.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Great example.</b><b>I remember there was a hole in the pocket.</b><b>So once the whole created, I</b><b>was like, rip it a little more.</b><b>You could shove a whole bag in</b><b>there and just wrap it around.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Were you the only one that did that?</b><b>Or were you doing it?</b><b>Did they ever catch on that</b><b>we're missing stuff every time</b><b>this group of kids comes in?</b><b>Well, it wasn't like a group thing.</b><b>You do like one friend.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It's not like you go and</b><b>just clear out the place.</b><b>You know, you gotta be,</b><b>well, people do that now.</b><b>No, that's what I'm saying.</b><b>This is very, covert shit</b><b>in your pants the whole time.</b><b>And you don't think you're good</b><b>till you can't see the store anymore.</b><b>How many times did you do that?</b><b>I don't know enough to remember it.</b><b>Did you sneak into movies?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Without buying a ticket.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Well, but like, uh, who was,</b><b>who was telling us Lou, right?</b><b>Yes.</b><b>In one of our previous podcast.</b><b>People, I had a friend who worked that.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And they'd like, they'd let you in.</b><b>You'd go knock on the</b><b>door and they'd let you in.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Would you prank call?</b><b>Oh, absolutely.</b><b>So what were some of the, do you</b><b>remember any of the prank calls?</b><b>Things you'd say?</b><b>No, we would prank call, but, and when we first</b><b>did it, it was like your fridge</b><b>refrigerators running, you</b><b>better go get it or something.</b><b>It was like dumb jokes like that.</b><b>But then it just was like breathing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Or, um, saying like, just, I don't know what it</b><b>was, but we would prank call a lot.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>A hundred percent.</b><b>Because there was no caller ID.</b><b>It was all landlines.</b><b>And no one knew.</b><b>Well, there was a way to where you could block</b><b>your line because caller ID came</b><b>out, but there was a way you could punch a code</b><b>in and not show your number.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's later.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And when we were middle</b><b>school, there was not a caller ID.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was more high school.</b><b>Like, um, uh, what do you call it?</b><b>A phone where he can record</b><b>a thing like leave a message.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The voice machine melt.</b><b>What's it called?</b><b>Uh, the, the answering machine.</b><b>Answering machine and answering machine.</b><b>So I remember when answering machines showed up</b><b>and I think that was like</b><b>high school with the landline.</b><b>And I remember it was a big deal.</b><b>So like the message, like sometimes as, as I</b><b>get, we got more comfortable.</b><b>We play music and like</b><b>say, Hey, leave us a message.</b><b>Like it would be like a whole production.</b><b>It would be a production.</b><b>I don't recall that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That sounds like you and your mom.</b><b>The for the answering machine.</b><b>Or I could just do it.</b><b>Like she would let me take</b><b>over and it'd be like, you</b><b>reached that, but I would</b><b>have like bells and whistles.</b><b>There was like a director's cut.</b><b>It was a whole thing.</b><b>I had fun with that with the</b><b>answering machines and then it switched</b><b>to voicemail on cell phones, but the answer</b><b>machines were cool because</b><b>you'd come home and it'd be blinking.</b><b>It's blinking.</b><b>And you're like, we got messages.</b><b>We actually had one too.</b><b>That told you the number of messages you have.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>You have nine messages or something like that.</b><b>And then you listen to it.</b><b>And do you remember when it first,</b><b>the more the same person who just</b><b>screwed up leaving the first message.</b><b>Like, what?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Do you remember when they</b><b>first came out, it was on a tape.</b><b>It was like a little, a little micro cassette.</b><b>And so there were times like, if your tape got</b><b>messed up, you lost your messages.</b><b>Like that was the whole thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Do you remember, um, like having to share the</b><b>landline with your family?</b><b>Oh, yeah.</b><b>So you'd get like, did you and your sister ever</b><b>have to battle over phone time?</b><b>My sister actually got her own number when she</b><b>was in like, like ninth grade or</b><b>something.</b><b>I remember kids who would have that.</b><b>And I was like, wow, you got your own number.</b><b>I remember I had my own phone in my room in</b><b>high school, but I did not have my own</b><b>number, but I had my own phone.</b><b>It wasn't just sharing the line.</b><b>It was making sure no one picked up the line</b><b>while you were talking.</b><b>And listen, listen, you're talking to your</b><b>girlfriend or your boyfriend.</b><b>No, that was the whole thing.</b><b>A hundred percent.</b><b>But I remember when I finally got a phone in my</b><b>room, I didn't have to sit out in</b><b>like the living room and be on</b><b>the phone or like, I'd take it.</b><b>You, the whole cord could,</b><b>I could go in the garage.</b><b>So I'd pull it into the garage and I'd be on</b><b>the phone in the garage.</b><b>So that was the whole thing.</b><b>Do you remember always thinking</b><b>there's going to be a nuclear war?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We grew up in that.</b><b>Remember that movie Red Dawn?</b><b>Red Dawn.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I mean, we grew up in the cold, cold, cold war.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But we literally, we would do drills and we'd</b><b>have to go under the desk.</b><b>Did you ever do that?</b><b>I don't remember that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We would do that.</b><b>Like if we were going to get bombed by a</b><b>nuclear bomb going under the desk is</b><b>what's going to save us.</b><b>That's what we thought.</b><b>You know, it's interesting.</b><b>So I was up in Birmingham a few years ago with</b><b>Nathan and Ben, and I actually</b><b>took a picture cause there was a sign on a</b><b>brick building of saying like nuclear</b><b>shelter.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You don't see that too often.</b><b>No, no.</b><b>And it was like nuclear shelter and it's like</b><b>pointing down here, going to the</b><b>basement.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No.</b><b>And I remember there were like,</b><b>there was a movie called Red Dawn.</b><b>No, that one.</b><b>But then there was a TV movie</b><b>called like the end or something.</b><b>Like propaganda for sure.</b><b>But no, but it was like</b><b>a Hollywood movie, right?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But it was about the end of</b><b>the nuclear war happening.</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>I wish I could remember the name of that movie,</b><b>but Red Dawn, Red Dawn is such a</b><b>Gen X movie.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So, so there's a group of movies, Red Dawn.</b><b>Um, the outsiders.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's a great movie.</b><b>Breakfast club.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>16 candles.</b><b>Tex.</b><b>What?</b><b>Tex.</b><b>I don't remember that.</b><b>That's with Matt Dillon.</b><b>So the woman that wrote</b><b>outsiders, I see hidden.</b><b>She wrote Tex.</b><b>She wrote that was then this</b><b>is now they made movies on that.</b><b>So that was like a whole, whole genre.</b><b>So you didn't the outside.</b><b>Did you read the outsiders?</b><b>I actually read part of the outsiders.</b><b>I'm not a big book guys, you know, but I've</b><b>seen, I've seen the movie at least,</b><b>you know, a bunch of times.</b><b>I love it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then, um, pretty in pink.</b><b>Did you ever see pretty in pink?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But it doesn't really resonate.</b><b>So that there was that whole John Hughes genre.</b><b>And then, um, because that's breakfast club,</b><b>those are more girl movies.</b><b>Probably.</b><b>I remember like St.</b><b>Elmo's fire, St.</b><b>Elmo's fire.</b><b>That's all that's in the same.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, say anything.</b><b>That's where he holds the boom box up.</b><b>John Kuzak outside her window.</b><b>That's iconic.</b><b>So that's what me, all those women think</b><b>that's, you know, we should have expected</b><b>that we didn't, but that's what we should have</b><b>held held to is hold the</b><b>boom box at our window.</b><b>I would say I was more of</b><b>like an animal house guy.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Uh, the wall love the wall.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But I'm talking.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I guess.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>The wall.</b><b>That's a whole thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But yeah, usually you're like,</b><b>and the blues brothers.</b><b>I love the blues brothers.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Revenge of the nerds, that whole, and that's</b><b>one of those series where, uh,</b><b>they did like 20 of them.</b><b>But in the first several were pretty good.</b><b>I think it was just two, but okay.</b><b>Police Academy.</b><b>I was just about to say that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That had a bunch.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Rocky.</b><b>Rocky.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>I personally think I love Rocky and Rocky too,</b><b>but my Rocky is Rocky three.</b><b>Funny.</b><b>You say that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Mr.</b><b>T.</b><b>I think it's because that was like, we were</b><b>that a little bit old enough to really</b><b>appreciate it.</b><b>Which Rocky did they fight the Russians in?</b><b>Rocky four.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So I saw Rocky four in a movie theater in West</b><b>Virginia, more content.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And you know, the whole place is going crazy.</b><b>Go get them.</b><b>Rock.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The whole place.</b><b>The place is screaming.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>It was amazing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It was good.</b><b>No, that was, and then, um, Terminator.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The whole series.</b><b>That's our, that's our time that that's Gen X</b><b>this time is terminator.</b><b>What's the other one?</b><b>First blood first blood.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's the lone Rambo Rambo Rambo.</b><b>Like all of that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So you really think about like the first movies</b><b>I mentioned the outsiders in that</b><b>genre and, and John Hughes and that genre and</b><b>then Rocky and series and the Rambo</b><b>series and keep well, before you wrap it up.</b><b>So Friday the 13th, Halloween.</b><b>So we, we had Halloween, like we were there</b><b>when all this stuff came original.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>These were not remakes.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>These were newly created</b><b>movies, screenplays, everything.</b><b>So yes.</b><b>Um, we had Friday the 13th.</b><b>We had Halloween and we</b><b>had nightmare on Elm street.</b><b>Those were like our big and it just jaws.</b><b>We were the generation.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I'm just kidding.</b><b>We were the generation of jaws.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We were the generation of</b><b>get the shit scared out of you.</b><b>If you turned on the wrong channel.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>True.</b><b>Really?</b><b>So true.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That is so true.</b><b>Did you ever see piranha?</b><b>Hell yeah.</b><b>Like I saw it in a drive-through.</b><b>So my mom and my stepdad were watching the</b><b>movie in front of them.</b><b>They brought me with them to watch that movie.</b><b>I turned around and watched piranha.</b><b>I think I was six.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I was horrified.</b><b>My best friend had a red</b><b>belly piranhas as pets.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>Awesome.</b><b>We'd go to the mall.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I goldfish.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Come back and feed them.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>You know, they go crazy like the movie.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Crazy.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, it is.</b><b>I remember thinking like I'm going to have a</b><b>time in my life along with the</b><b>quicksand I will encounter piranha.</b><b>You know, now that we live in Florida.</b><b>Piranhas survive here.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And we don't have a piranha population that I'm</b><b>aware of, but they survived on.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh, do you remember there was like a TV movie</b><b>about ants that killed, like they</b><b>swarmed people and killed them?</b><b>Does that sound familiar?</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>I just remember there's a scene in the movie</b><b>where a little boy falls in a</b><b>dumpster and the ants get him and kill him.</b><b>I was watching that.</b><b>I think I was six, seven.</b><b>So ants, then that was a</b><b>whole thing to add to my list.</b><b>Remember like a revenge of the body snatchers.</b><b>I didn't see that one when I watched it later.</b><b>I think that came out and it was 3d.</b><b>I think that's what they did.</b><b>It was a 3d movie and I think it</b><b>was revenge of the body snare and</b><b>something of the body.</b><b>Close encounters of the third kind.</b><b>That was alien.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>Do you remember ET?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The phenomenon of ET.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>Like you can't duplicate that.</b><b>You cannot culturally duplicate</b><b>the phenomenon of ET Raiders of the</b><b>Lost Ark, that whole thing.</b><b>I wasn't told the end of that.</b><b>Really?</b><b>Not really.</b><b>There was Star Wars.</b><b>Star Wars.</b><b>Like we're the generation of Star Wars.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Think about that.</b><b>And, and Raiders of the Lost Ark.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>All of that.</b><b>So you look at everything we just talked about</b><b>all those movies and you compare it</b><b>to what is being offered in theaters for the</b><b>last 10, 15 years, 20 years.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It's like a joke.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It's a joke.</b><b>Like there's nothing that it's so few that</b><b>something comes out that's of such</b><b>quality and originality as what we got in the</b><b>seventies and eighties and nineties.</b><b>I would say those three decades really put out</b><b>some of the most iconic movies and it</b><b>made it worth, it made it worth spending the</b><b>money to go see a movie.</b><b>Of course it wasn't as expensive as it is now,</b><b>but it made it worth it where there's</b><b>really nothing at this point</b><b>where I'm like, yeah, that's worth it.</b><b>You know, it'd have to be something big.</b><b>I can't even think of, I</b><b>don't watch movies anymore.</b><b>There's no entertainment value to me.</b><b>No, but it was that just, and I don't even</b><b>think our kids really like we were,</b><b>it's they're not like a movie generation.</b><b>No.</b><b>Like how we were.</b><b>I don't think I could be wrong.</b><b>I don't know if the millennials feel this way.</b><b>I don't know if Gen Z is</b><b>like a movie generation.</b><b>Like it was such a part of our culture.</b><b>Everything it feels like, and I'm semi ignorant</b><b>on this, but it feels like there's</b><b>some message or some political bend or some,</b><b>it's not just some creative</b><b>imagine that thing, like it has an agenda.</b><b>It's got an agenda.</b><b>It feels like, yeah, I don't know, but even,</b><b>and like I said, there were, we</b><b>didn't really have Disney movies.</b><b>We did.</b><b>They were the older ones, like the Pinocchios,</b><b>the Cinderella's and all that.</b><b>But that whole phenomenon of like the real big,</b><b>like beauty and the beast and</b><b>Lion King, that was more</b><b>when we were in college.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And that's when Disney really ratcheted it up.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, remember like Arthur?</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Remember that show?</b><b>That was such a good movie.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>There's so many, you really, nine to five, nine</b><b>to five was a great movie.</b><b>Nine to five.</b><b>That was with Dolly Parton.</b><b>Oh, Dolly Parton.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And that's when women</b><b>were entering the workforce.</b><b>It's, it was such a good, such a good movie.</b><b>Is it Willy Wonka?</b><b>Well, yeah, there was Willy</b><b>Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.</b><b>They've remade that a few times.</b><b>Like Johnny Depp was one.</b><b>And then, um, I'm just trying to think back to</b><b>like the Richard Pryor movies.</b><b>Oh, and even stand up comedians, right?</b><b>Stand up comedians.</b><b>That was great.</b><b>Completely.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I don't know what the right term is politically</b><b>correct, right term is, but</b><b>the shit they would say was just wrong.</b><b>There is raw.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So we had, um, we had Richard Pryor, we had</b><b>Eddie Murphy, like all in their prime.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, to me, like Chris Rock's kind of close.</b><b>He's, he's done pretty well.</b><b>Right.</b><b>What about George Carlin though?</b><b>Oh, I mean, that man was brilliant.</b><b>Amazing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh, you just made me think what about like, um,</b><b>Private Benjamin with Goldie</b><b>Han and, um, and she made a couple of movies</b><b>with Chevy Chase that I loved.</b><b>Like they were like a little duo for a while.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Caddyshack.</b><b>Hello.</b><b>Totally.</b><b>And meatballs.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Caddyshack and meatballs.</b><b>And then did you ever see little darlings?</b><b>What's what is that?</b><b>That was with Christie McNichol.</b><b>That was like kind of racy a little bit.</b><b>I think so.</b><b>I had a crush on her as a kid.</b><b>It's totally inappropriate.</b><b>Like, well, of course, if you look back now,</b><b>but, um, blazing saddles.</b><b>Just before I forget.</b><b>Saddles.</b><b>And then what about all the Mel Brooks movies?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>There's a great, the</b><b>history of the world part one.</b><b>Those are great.</b><b>So inappropriate.</b><b>I remember being like five.</b><b>I don't even know whatever it was.</b><b>So funny.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The world.</b><b>What's his name?</b><b>The weirdo.</b><b>Uh, was it not?</b><b>Robin Williams.</b><b>No, no, no.</b><b>He's not weird though.</b><b>The real word.</b><b>What do you know?</b><b>Uh, something that the guy who'd married like a</b><b>15 year old or something.</b><b>And the guy in New York, um, Oh, Woody Allen.</b><b>I was never a big Woody Allen fan.</b><b>I was never, uh, like I was</b><b>never really big into his movies.</b><b>I think, I don't know.</b><b>He did well, but yeah, no, he, there's</b><b>definitely a huge following, but</b><b>I was never really, but he</b><b>just think about all that.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>I, and this could be just the Gen X or in me</b><b>talking like you guys don't know what</b><b>what, like how it was, but it was just so much,</b><b>it was so quality and I, I don't see</b><b>it now, but again, I don't know.</b><b>Think they're like, are we just being nostalgic</b><b>and thinking that something</b><b>was cool and it really wasn't.</b><b>And I mean, it's cool cause we think it's cool,</b><b>but is that just not happening today?</b><b>Well, I think, I think what I</b><b>see is a lot of remaking of that.</b><b>So I, I, I see a lot of attempting to remake</b><b>stuff from the seventies, eighties,</b><b>nineties, and like the star Wars thing, they</b><b>just keep continuing, continuing,</b><b>continuing, but, um, I don't know.</b><b>I haven't seen anything like super original.</b><b>Even Titanic was amazing and Schindler's list.</b><b>Those are like nineties movies.</b><b>Shawshank redemption.</b><b>Um, so anyways, but just we, we were a</b><b>generation of a movie culture.</b><b>Cause even reality bites, which is such a</b><b>phenomenal gen X movie.</b><b>We, we just, that was part of our culture.</b><b>I don't know if it's as</b><b>ingrained in the Gen Z culture.</b><b>I don't know.</b><b>I really don't.</b><b>I know our kids will sometimes go see a movie</b><b>rarely, although I will say,</b><b>um, our older son was there</b><b>for all a Harry Potter and love.</b><b>And then our both, our kids love</b><b>Harry, the Harry Potter movies.</b><b>And, um, they are older to love the Lord of the</b><b>rings, especially our older son</b><b>loves the Lord of the rings.</b><b>Those are quality original movies.</b><b>But again, those were made in the early 2000s.</b><b>So I don't know.</b><b>That's why I say I feel like in the last,</b><b>especially 10 years, I'm not sure.</b><b>Cause even the American pie movies were good.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Those are, those are good movies and those are</b><b>like what late to early 2000s.</b><b>So something I feel the first one was, I</b><b>thought the second third, what was the</b><b>other one we like with, uh, a dude in Texas,</b><b>uh, the 1976 schools out for summer.</b><b>Oh, days and confused.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's a classic.</b><b>Yeah, of course.</b><b>And then you have Talladega nights.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, like Ron Burgundy, acre man.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So, but again, that was over 20 years ago.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I don't know.</b><b>I don't, I don't know.</b><b>I know.</b><b>I know.</b><b>But we had some good movies, but red done that</b><b>brings us back to red on red done.</b><b>I can say for myself, well, after I watched</b><b>that movie, I 100% believe that that is</b><b>going to happen and that I will experience it.</b><b>I thought that was part of</b><b>our culture as a nuclear war.</b><b>It was a reality that we lived really until</b><b>what the Berlin wall came down.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then we thought, Oh, okay.</b><b>We're not going to get bombed.</b><b>So our son was at the UFC fights</b><b>in Miami and he saw the president.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>When I was in college, I think it</b><b>was maybe sophomore junior year.</b><b>I went and visited my friend in grand rapids</b><b>and I went to a Berlin wall.</b><b>Uh, what's the right word ceremony.</b><b>It was, they were giving the bur</b><b>a piece of the Berlin wall to the</b><b>local, uh, place there in grand rapids.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Gerald Ford was the president.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Right.</b><b>He was a president.</b><b>He was, he did the whole thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>It was pretty cool.</b><b>No, that's cool.</b><b>It was cool in toothbrunts.</b><b>We got, I got to see Gerald Ford probably 30</b><b>feet away at most and a piece</b><b>of the Berlin wall got knocked</b><b>down, which was very nostalgic for us.</b><b>Cause they showed videos of people tearing it</b><b>down and you know, it was.</b><b>It was interesting.</b><b>No, it's, it's a, it's a historical thing.</b><b>No.</b><b>Do you remember, um, were you, I don't know if</b><b>it reached you because in Portland,</b><b>this was big, but like the punk rock scene,</b><b>like the sex pistols, like that city.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So I remember I'd wear it.</b><b>We'd have like in downtown Portland, like</b><b>storage, you could go to,</b><b>and it was all like punk stuff, but I would</b><b>wear like the high tops and he'd</b><b>like cover them with color and was Sharpie and</b><b>stuff like it was a whole thing.</b><b>I didn't do that.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We went through that for a little bit.</b><b>What grade?</b><b>What age?</b><b>It was like maybe sophomore year.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I was by then I was more into the dead.</b><b>See, I didn't get dead.</b><b>I didn't get that until end of sophomore year.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So this sort of a, maybe this is maybe like</b><b>ninth grade into sophomore year,</b><b>but the sex pistols and that whole punk rock</b><b>scene, that was all really big.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I wouldn't have been familiar with any of</b><b>the sports at the time.</b><b>Like, I mean, I knew the Harlem Globetrotters.</b><b>Remember when we were growing up, the Harlem</b><b>Globetrotters were a big deal.</b><b>They were a huge deal.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Um, and then I feel like the Dallas cowboy</b><b>cheerleaders were a big deal for a while.</b><b>That was like a whole phenomenon, right?</b><b>Yep.</b><b>But I don't remember anything else with sports.</b><b>Like what would have been the teams?</b><b>For me, it was the Yankees.</b><b>I remember becoming a Yankee fan in 1977.</b><b>So I was six years old,</b><b>become a lifelong Yankee fan.</b><b>Um, the Raiders were good back then.</b><b>The Steelers were good.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, the Dodgers first</b><b>Yankees was a big rivalry.</b><b>Um, what about, um, boys were the hated team.</b><b>You know, we had.</b><b>Oh, were they?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Everyone hated the Cowboys.</b><b>What about, um, uh, the refrigerator?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Uh, William, the refrigerator</b><b>Perry played for the, the bears.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The bears number 72.</b><b>And then back then it was Jim McMahon.</b><b>He had the glasses and</b><b>everyone would give him shit.</b><b>And he's like, I have an eye condition.</b><b>I need them.</b><b>Whether it's true or I assume it is, but they</b><b>did the Super Bowl shuffle.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>I'm with the bears.</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>And then, um, I remember the</b><b>bears member on Saturday Night Live.</b><b>DeBares.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So I remember that, but I was probably more</b><b>like when we were in college.</b><b>So another thing, what was really cool for us,</b><b>I remember being a young kid and</b><b>being at like watching Mike Tyson fights on</b><b>like Saturday afternoons when he was</b><b>coming up and he was a kid and he was knocking</b><b>the shit out of people.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Come out and it's like, all</b><b>right, you gotta watch Mike.</b><b>And he would knock out men in seconds.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And he was so much fun to watch.</b><b>It was awesome.</b><b>I knew nothing about that.</b><b>Oh, it was amazing.</b><b>I remember watching that as a kid.</b><b>The other thing too, as a kid</b><b>was magic verse bird, right?</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>Right.</b><b>That was always that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then I remember Michael Jordan coming out.</b><b>Jordan came along.</b><b>I remember watching Jordan as a kid and Jordan</b><b>put up like 65 points and they</b><b>still lost and he was their team.</b><b>And then eventually they</b><b>built a cast around him.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>And they, you know, I remember that.</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>But, um, I can't, I don't</b><b>remember like the Superbowl.</b><b>Was it a big thing?</b><b>Probably because I am a dad at the house.</b><b>Like, uh, she's the 49ers, Joe Montero.</b><b>Yeah. Yeah. I remember that.</b><b>I remember that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I guess I, if it got really popular in</b><b>mainstream, I remember it, but</b><b>I didn't follow it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I was a sports guy.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, I was all in.</b><b>I loved sports.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I've, you know, tracked</b><b>each pro team and all of that.</b><b>It was fun.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No.</b><b>I mean, I think that, um, so I think we pretty</b><b>much had very similar experiences.</b><b>There's just a few deviations there.</b><b>I think it's interesting.</b><b>If you think about why probably because, um,</b><b>culture is very cultivated, right?</b><b>And TV, everyone watched TV.</b><b>Back then.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>I don't really watch TV anymore.</b><b>I watched the masters</b><b>today, but yeah, off and on.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>But TV really drove things.</b><b>So, you know, it's the news and then all the</b><b>programs we talked about.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then the music, it was the top 40 until</b><b>you, well, but not really.</b><b>Cause I listened, I had older friends, so I was</b><b>listening to the doors and the</b><b>stones and, and, and other bands like that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Led Zeppelin.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Um, AC, DC, all these</b><b>other bands that were not.</b><b>Necessarily top 40, but the culture was very</b><b>cultivated across the whole country.</b><b>It was contained.</b><b>It was contained.</b><b>It was a contained culture.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And you're right.</b><b>Everyone was watching TV.</b><b>Like everyone experienced the</b><b>MTV phenomenon at some point.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And everyone, we all had, yeah, you're right.</b><b>Because the internet's made the world smaller</b><b>by connecting us to the world.</b><b>But we're not all similar.</b><b>We're not all having this.</b><b>I wonder if kids nowadays are</b><b>having as similar experiences as we did,</b><b>because it's just so vast.</b><b>Now, you know, it's funny as I think I told you</b><b>this, but one of my friends on</b><b>Facebook has a freshman in high school up in</b><b>New Jersey, and they posted a picture</b><b>like a lacrosse picture of something.</b><b>All those kids look like all the kids down here</b><b>wearing the same clothes.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>All the same haircut.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>All that same vibe.</b><b>So that's a trip.</b><b>And that could be the connecting</b><b>them to with from social media.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So maybe social media is now the TV.</b><b>Probably, you know, as far as like connecting</b><b>the scrolling, the, the, yeah,</b><b>the culture, the connecting the culture where</b><b>for us, and maybe that's kind of</b><b>taking the place of like movies too, in a way</b><b>is, is you to have been social media</b><b>and all that, I don't know, but you're right.</b><b>Like if you look at social media, the kids, the</b><b>boys all kind of have the same haircut.</b><b>You know, though, if I think about it, I</b><b>remember being in fifth grade and we</b><b>had the teacher's Mr.</b><b>Spice and during, I don't know, whatever, some</b><b>open time during the middle of the</b><b>day, we'd maybe it was rainy or whatever.</b><b>I don't even know, but</b><b>we'd be able to play music.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I had friends who had played the Beatles.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I never really went, was into the Beatles.</b><b>And I was in AC DC fees back</b><b>then Zeppelin, AC DC stones.</b><b>And so when they got the record</b><b>player, they'd play the Beatles.</b><b>We'd play AC DC.</b><b>And so, but I bet we all watched little house</b><b>on a Prairie or whatever, right?</b><b>The same shows, maybe there's, so there's this</b><b>common theme with deviations.</b><b>And I think that's, we'll always be.</b><b>And it's how it is today.</b><b>Probably.</b><b>It's so funny.</b><b>You say that because when I was</b><b>in sixth grade, my teacher, Mr.</b><b>Hausmann, he's so cool.</b><b>Um, he's a doctor now, like Dr.</b><b>Hausmann, but, um, he had a record player and I</b><b>would bring in all my 45s.</b><b>And I was like the DJ.</b><b>And I think other kids would sometimes bring</b><b>stuff into, but I was so obsessed</b><b>with music and we, and when I didn't play my</b><b>stuff, he would play stuff.</b><b>It was, it was so cool that he did that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, I think, I think more teachers, I do</b><b>see it on social media.</b><b>Teachers playing music for their students.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And I think most more teachers should do that.</b><b>Cause especially the younger kids,</b><b>cause it can be calming for them.</b><b>But that's a core memory for me.</b><b>Like that was a positive thing.</b><b>Oh, that reminds me, did</b><b>you guys play four square?</b><b>Not really.</b><b>We played kill the guy</b><b>in football and your boy.</b><b>That was a boy.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So the girls played four square, four square.</b><b>We played dodgeball dodgeball.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Dodgeball was huge.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So we played four square.</b><b>We played dodgeball.</b><b>Um, you didn't play red Rover, right?</b><b>We talked about this another episode.</b><b>We played red.</b><b>That's where you hold, hold your arm.</b><b>You guys didn't play that.</b><b>Do you guys play tag?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah, of course.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We would play tag.</b><b>We play hide and go seek or hide and seek.</b><b>I don't think we played hide and seek.</b><b>Can you ever play kick the can?</b><b>We played kick the can.</b><b>Like when we would be, when I was, when my dad</b><b>lived up north and I would hang</b><b>out with like kids up there, we play kick the</b><b>can in the neighborhood.</b><b>I can't tell you how, what the rules were.</b><b>I can either now that I say it, but I think</b><b>kick the can for us is what</b><b>our kids play when they play.</b><b>Um, remember when they were younger and they</b><b>would play outside manhunt, manhunt.</b><b>No, no, manhunt, manhunt is more like hide and</b><b>seek where you go hide.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And somebody counts to like 60 or</b><b>something and everybody goes hide.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Hides.</b><b>And it would either be like one person's it or</b><b>like a, maybe a couple, I</b><b>think, you know, where I grew</b><b>up, we could, we could hide.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Right.</b><b>And cause it was all trees.</b><b>It was, you know, we could hide.</b><b>And if you didn't want to be</b><b>found, you weren't going to be found.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So then the person person be</b><b>like, all right, I give up.</b><b>And then you'd have to swap up</b><b>and then what was kicked the can.</b><b>I don't remember.</b><b>I just remember like, it was like, you would, I</b><b>don't, I can't even describe it.</b><b>Just remember you had to kick the can or</b><b>something, but then you ran or something.</b><b>Like you kicked the can and ran and then maybe</b><b>tag somebody or something like that.</b><b>Now did you have tether ball?</b><b>Uh, yeah, but that wasn't</b><b>like, I love tether ball.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>I would hit that thing.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So did you ever have to climb a rope to the top</b><b>of the ceiling of Jim and all</b><b>that was below you was a mat that was like</b><b>this, that maybe this thin.</b><b>It was a standard wrestling mat.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like two inches thick.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>And, but you had to climb a rope.</b><b>I never made it.</b><b>I love that shit.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I never made it to the top.</b><b>I don't think they do that.</b><b>If they do that, the, the matter is.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And it sure is liability.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The whole thing.</b><b>Do you remember, did you ever get hot lunch?</b><b>Uh, like at school.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>I used to remember the period.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>It's like that square square.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So that was all the same.</b><b>I didn't really like that.</b><b>I don't know if anyone liked it.</b><b>I think it's just like, uh,</b><b>you can remember the taste of it.</b><b>I didn't, I wasn't into it.</b><b>I grew up in New Jersey.</b><b>We had real pizza, like thin crust.</b><b>This was like, yes.</b><b>I know.</b><b>I'm trying to think what else they serve.</b><b>That was like a common thing.</b><b>I would get, when I was a</b><b>kid, I'd get PB and chase.</b><b>I'd get the peanut butter</b><b>and jelly with chocolate milk.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And then feel like that's all I ate.</b><b>I remember tater tots and tater tots.</b><b>Tater tots were so good.</b><b>Corn dogs.</b><b>We had corn dogs.</b><b>I never had those.</b><b>Uh, I actually never had a corn dog until we</b><b>made it to new move to Oregon.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We used to have sloppy Joe's.</b><b>That was my favorites.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I thought those were disgusting.</b><b>Oh, they were gross.</b><b>So you played the recorder.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>Not well.</b><b>No.</b><b>Did you have music class?</b><b>Um, yeah, but it wasn't great.</b><b>I still remember the teacher.</b><b>She wasn't, she didn't, we didn't drive.</b><b>I don't feel like you jived with any teachers.</b><b>No, there was, there had to have been some.</b><b>I think you were a menace.</b><b>No, no, that's not fair.</b><b>I think so.</b><b>So our music class, our music teacher was cool</b><b>and you could go in there and</b><b>play all different types of instruments.</b><b>I remember our music class.</b><b>There were auditions, I think to be in the</b><b>school play or the musical, right?</b><b>To sing at the thing.</b><b>And I remember, no, like in the auditorium or</b><b>the lunchroom, the cafeteria.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And the parents, you know, it was Christmas</b><b>show that kind of thing.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Back then it was Christmas.</b><b>Now it's holiday.</b><b>Um, and, uh, I remember there were like, come</b><b>try out and sign up and get the</b><b>goods on what's going to happen.</b><b>I remember myself and a handful of my buddies</b><b>show up and she's like,</b><b>she just said no to you right away.</b><b>But she was like, you guys are not serious.</b><b>You're here just to get out of your class.</b><b>You know, tell me, is that the case?</b><b>If that's the case, you need to leave.</b><b>We're like, all right, whatever.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>So she knew, she's like, absolutely not.</b><b>So did you take home?</b><b>Um, in seventh or eighth</b><b>grade, I actually really enjoyed it.</b><b>You liked home.</b><b>What did you like about home?</b><b>Um, the lady who taught it was super nice.</b><b>It was an older lady.</b><b>Super nice.</b><b>Um, I actually made a pillow, a black pillow</b><b>with, um, it was a Billy Idol pillow.</b><b>So it was like white letters.</b><b>You know, you had to cut it and</b><b>sew it and stuff it and all that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I made a pillow.</b><b>I made a hamburger.</b><b>I think it was a hamburger.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>Did you have wood shop?</b><b>Yeah, that was my favorite.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I only took it once.</b><b>I think, but I made a</b><b>cutting board, which we still have.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>I need to fix that.</b><b>They should still offer home.</b><b>I can move up in class.</b><b>I'm I'm, I think it's, I</b><b>understand, uh, having technology classes.</b><b>And I think that's important, but I think there</b><b>needs to be a balance and I think</b><b>they should bring back home back.</b><b>And I think they should bring back wood shop.</b><b>I think it's critical</b><b>because think about it, right?</b><b>I was a menace probably for most of my classes.</b><b>But when I got to wood shop, I loved it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Home. Mac.</b><b>I loved it for whatever reason.</b><b>Home Mac.</b><b>I mean, I was like, yeah, but</b><b>they know it's stereotypical.</b><b>It doesn't make sense, but</b><b>you were using your hands.</b><b>You were like doing something where you weren't</b><b>having to sit and listen or read.</b><b>You could actually do something.</b><b>We actually had a plastic class too, where, um,</b><b>they had sheets of plastic,</b><b>different colors, and you could make things.</b><b>So you'd have to use the jigsaw or the band saw</b><b>and cut a pattern and then go</b><b>over to like the sanding machine or the lathe,</b><b>then to the buffing machine and</b><b>stuff.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I mean, I made like spoons or some spoons, but</b><b>like a spreader or something.</b><b>Really?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We hadn't, we didn't have anything like that.</b><b>No, we had wood shop and we</b><b>had, um, uh, home and tight.</b><b>Oh, typing class.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>We had to take typing class.</b><b>I think kids should have to do that.</b><b>Still.</b><b>A hundred percent.</b><b>I think they should definitely, so many kids</b><b>just type with their fingers.</b><b>You know what it is?</b><b>I think it's almost like those other classes</b><b>tap into, they just, there's</b><b>different parts of your brain and use.</b><b>So like for me to go to a math class, it's</b><b>like, uh, but to go to like wood</b><b>shop, that's yeah.</b><b>And stuff.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, I think it's a great way</b><b>to grab those kids like that.</b><b>So I think they should still,</b><b>did you ever have a pet rock?</b><b>I don't think so.</b><b>Oh my God.</b><b>I told, I had, I had a few.</b><b>Really?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>I love my pet rocks.</b><b>Did you have a rabbit's foot?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We would win a rabbit's foot at that.</b><b>So every year there was a</b><b>carnival in town at the church.</b><b>You went to it, the heart lady, the Lake</b><b>church, and you would win a, uh, uh,</b><b>rabbit's foot for doing some, it's something</b><b>like either fish or rabbit's.</b><b>But what color was your rabbit's foot?</b><b>I think I had one every year.</b><b>It's like wider.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So yeah, I feel like, I feel like mine was</b><b>white, but I can't tell her.</b><b>I had, I had a pet rock that</b><b>I loved and a rabbit's foot.</b><b>And I remember I would</b><b>win goldfish at carnival.</b><b>I'd keep those things alive as long as I could.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Did you collect anything?</b><b>Um, you know, actually I had</b><b>a baseball card collection.</b><b>That was pretty expensive.</b><b>We still have it.</b><b>Oh, we do.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You're right.</b><b>I forgot about that.</b><b>I actually had, and this is funny.</b><b>This is part of that gen X piece.</b><b>Probably.</b><b>I had a matchbook collection.</b><b>Of cars.</b><b>Oh, no.</b><b>Of matches.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So when we'd go to the, a</b><b>restaurant, I'd get matches.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>If we, and a place has had matches.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's just another thing.</b><b>Right.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Restaurants.</b><b>My, I think I would play with them.</b><b>I would play with the matches and light them</b><b>and light the whole book</b><b>on fire and throw it out.</b><b>And you sit like that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You not, Gen X not</b><b>supervised just lighting matches.</b><b>I feel like I was supervised by uncles or aunts</b><b>or whoever that are like, Oh, that's cool.</b><b>Whatever.</b><b>Um, I remember, I think my mom had a glass jar</b><b>that she had a bunch of match.</b><b>I think that was a thing</b><b>you would grab matches.</b><b>Everyone had matches.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You just take them.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>A hundred percent.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I used to collect stamps or stickers.</b><b>Oh, everybody had a sticker collection.</b><b>They got a sticker book.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I was all about the stickers.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I'm trying to think other than Barbies and</b><b>stuff, but I think stickers was my main thing.</b><b>And then the pet rock and the rabbit's foot.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I'm sure there was something else.</b><b>What, what pets did you have as a kid?</b><b>Dogs.</b><b>That's it.</b><b>Oh no.</b><b>And a goldfish.</b><b>Yep.</b><b>I think that's it.</b><b>You never had, you know</b><b>how like we have a fish tank.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>Multiple fish tanks.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Multiple fish tanks.</b><b>No, no, nothing, nothing required maintenance.</b><b>Maintenance dogs.</b><b>You had, you had dogs.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We always had dogs.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And, um, and I really have</b><b>any hobbies other than music.</b><b>I think that was my main hobby.</b><b>Was music.</b><b>I don't even know what a hobby would be.</b><b>I, I used to fish a lot.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's like a hobby.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You played sports.</b><b>Played sports.</b><b>I played sports a little.</b><b>Um, my hobby was surviving.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I mean, my, another, well, a collection would</b><b>have been once I got into the dead</b><b>and collecting cassettes, right?</b><b>That's, yeah.</b><b>Well, no adults, please.</b><b>You, you, you have multiple</b><b>hobbies and own all the things.</b><b>You're a serial hobbyist.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I always say it's your way of hoarding</b><b>because hoarding runs in your family.</b><b>It's more of a coped.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>There you go.</b><b>Well, you marry a Gen X woman.</b><b>You need to cope.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That's yeah.</b><b>Oh, and vice versa, dude.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>But yeah.</b><b>So I think, I think we covered it.</b><b>That anything I can't think of anything else</b><b>right now, but if we think of more</b><b>things, we'll do a part two.</b><b>With, I know I am.</b><b>I am too.</b><b>Anyone to, you know, I would love, I would love</b><b>to know if anyone heard some</b><b>of this stuff and was like, Oh yeah.</b><b>And remembered.</b><b>The only other thing I can think of would be,</b><b>um, the merry-go-rounds, the, the,</b><b>what the hell is that called?</b><b>The seesaw.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>The teeter totter.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>The teeter totter thing.</b><b>That was so dangerous.</b><b>Totally.</b><b>And then you dip and</b><b>someone would fall and get hurt.</b><b>You'd laugh and you'd go, totally.</b><b>And then what about the spinny thing?</b><b>I think it was the best.</b><b>And then like you'd hang your head off of it.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>You think about that now.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And all of our playground equipment was metal.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>The slide was metal.</b><b>So when it's hot, being on swings and getting</b><b>as high as you can and jumping off.</b><b>I didn't, I didn't jump off, but the slide,</b><b>when you go down the slide, it was hot.</b><b>Oh my gosh.</b><b>It would burn your thighs.</b><b>And then the jungle gym was metal.</b><b>We used to hang from it or the</b><b>handle, the bars we would hang.</b><b>You do the monkey bars.</b><b>I would get blisters.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I get blisters on my hands.</b><b>There was everything was metal.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, when, and as you</b><b>know, I grew up around action park,</b><b>which they made the movie on.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>So it's the Alpine slide, the</b><b>water slides and all that shit.</b><b>And that's a whole other, someone died there.</b><b>I think of multiple times.</b><b>Sure.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Then they finally shut it down.</b><b>Well, yeah, I don't, I</b><b>don't, yeah, I don't know.</b><b>There were multiple injuries per day.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>I don't know if there were, I don't recall</b><b>deaths per se, but I'm sure</b><b>that one person died.</b><b>They did a documentary</b><b>on, I think someone did die.</b><b>Did you go to it?</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>It was like a daily, not daily.</b><b>Uh, it was 30 minutes away.</b><b>It was up where the spot was.</b><b>Right.</b><b>So yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So you went to action park and you would</b><b>actually go on the rides.</b><b>Oh, a hundred percent.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Like the rides that they eventually shut down.</b><b>Well, you know, they, if you watch the movie,</b><b>it's a very accurate depiction.</b><b>They would try different things.</b><b>Like they showed that one where you go in and</b><b>you're, you're like the human, right?</b><b>You're not on and you go like this.</b><b>I never did that, but the Alpine slide, the</b><b>swing that launches you into the</b><b>water, the like go-kart things, bumper boats.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So that was something you did in the summer.</b><b>Oh yeah.</b><b>It was action park.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We did another one.</b><b>We had Tomahawk Lake.</b><b>I don't know if you ever</b><b>took, you ever take the kids?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Cause I heard someone died there.</b><b>So I wouldn't take them.</b><b>I don't know if I don't recall that, but it's</b><b>possible, but that was fun.</b><b>Someone drown.</b><b>You'd get a mat.</b><b>I think we'd do it on a mat.</b><b>I think, I think so.</b><b>Or maybe you just went on your skin, but you</b><b>had to walk up to the top and they</b><b>had two things and it would take you down into</b><b>a pool of water and that was fun.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Now we, I got hurt a few times on it, but we</b><b>didn't have the, we had that one thing</b><b>in Portland, it's like a Knott's Berry farm</b><b>type thing, but I can't remember</b><b>the name of it.</b><b>It'll come to me.</b><b>We did everything dangerous like that.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We had a lot of things.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Not that I can think of.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>We had people would ski up on Mount hood and go</b><b>sledding up there, but, um, no,</b><b>nothing, nothing I can think of that's.</b><b>Action park was, uh, was action park in the</b><b>summer and it was a ski place.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, you're, you went to the place that they</b><b>made a documentary about.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>And honestly, I mean, they, I</b><b>don't think they embellished.</b><b>No, it didn't sound like it.</b><b>It didn't seem like it at all.</b><b>So you watched it, right?</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>No, I thought it was hilarious.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So we actually had the Playboy club too.</b><b>You did.</b><b>So from across action park, you could look</b><b>across and there was a Playboy club.</b><b>Yes.</b><b>We'd go to that as kids.</b><b>What a time.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Action park in the Playboy club.</b><b>That's and on that note, that's a great way to</b><b>route because Playboy was a big thing</b><b>too.</b><b>Playboy bunnies.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>That was a big thing.</b><b>You know, the other thing I, um, I don't think</b><b>the kids do it today because they</b><b>don't need to, they can just go</b><b>on porn hub or some other website.</b><b>But we used to, um, get playboys</b><b>or wheeze or hustlers or whatever.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>You know, remember we go into seven 11 or, and</b><b>there'd be like a cover, you</b><b>know, so you couldn't see it.</b><b>That was a whole thing.</b><b>My buddies discovered that they just threw away</b><b>the old, uh, what, uh, issues.</b><b>Issues.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>So I never dumpster dive, but I think they did</b><b>for porn for Playboy and stuff.</b><b>Yeah.</b><b>Porn.</b><b>That was the porn back then.</b><b>That was Gen X porn.</b><b>That's hilarious.</b><b>It is funny.</b><b>Okay.</b><b>So I think on that note, we'll, we'll stop.</b><b>Um, but if we, uh, if we get enough memories</b><b>together, we'll do a part two of this.</b><b>So hopefully for anyone listening, this was an</b><b>enjoyable, uh, trip down memory</b><b>lane and unlock some core memories for you.</b><b>And if you have any others, please leave them</b><b>in the comments because it</b><b>almost feels like a lie</b><b>and people could interact.</b><b>Actually, that might be a good thing to do is</b><b>we'll do a live on this stuff too.</b><b>With our TV dinners.</b><b>Also, if you have any good snacks or, um, food</b><b>that you ate as a Gen X or please</b><b>leave that in the comments, because we would</b><b>love to pick up some stuff and</b><b>maybe do a Tik TOK live or Instagram or</b><b>Facebook live, something like that,</b><b>or film, do something.</b><b>So anyways, hopefully</b><b>everyone had fun with this.</b><b>We certainly did.</b><b>And we will see you next time.</b><b>Bye.</b>